जब भी सुनती हूँ किसी आकस्मिक निधन के बारे में, जिसका ताल्लुक आत्महत्या से होता है तो मन में ढेरों सवाल कौंध जाते है।
सवाल बदलते परिवेश के बारे में, सवाल जो कि मुझे अन्दर तक झकझोर जाते है।
मन सिहर उठता है उन भावनायों के बारे में सोचकर कि क्यूँ किसी ने ऐसा फैसला लिया होगा?
क्यूँ आइडियल ज़िंदगी की परिभाषा को धता बता कर अपना जीवन खत्म कर लिया होगा।
शायद उसे विश्वास हो चलता है कि उसके रहने ना रहने से कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता।
या खुद को वो और घुटता हुआ नहीं देख सकता।
एक कमज़ोर पल उससे क्या से क्या करवा जाता है?
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अगर थोड़ी सी हिम्मत दिखाता इस मुश्किल घड़ी में तो शायद खुद को अपनों के बीच में खड़ा पाता।
हम कोई नहीं है किसी की निजी ज़िंदगी में झांकने वाले।
पर अगर बाँट कर दुख कम हो सकता है तो क्यूँ नहीं,हम भी नहीं पीछे हटने वाले।
सवाल उठता है।
क्यूँ हार जाती है ज़िंदगी, मौत की बाहों में?
सब कुछ पाकर भी क्यूँ खो जाती है अंजानी राहों में?
शायद बात कर पाना उसके लिए बहुत मुश्किल होता होगा।
सूझती होगी ना कोई सूरत ना सीरत, हर जख्म दर्द देता होगा।
इंसानी रिश्तों से बढ़कर कुछ नहीं होता।
गर बाँटा होता दर्द उसका भी तो शायद आज वो भी ज़िन्दा होता।
क्यूँ भूल जाते है, बंद किवाड़ों के पीछे भी एक कहानी होती है।
अगर आती सुकून भरी हवा खिड़कियों से तो शायद कुछ और रवानी होती।
बस यही गुजारिश
“हो सके तो हर एक जिंदगी के लिए जीने की कोशिश करे।
हारे खुद को ना, उस गलत सोच को ही हरा दे।”
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यहाँ देखिये
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@Deepika Ji, It actually relates to general life, those people who commits suicide the have different thought process. That is why we should always try to build our mental patters at that level where only inspiration and courage of taking risks exist.
यह वास्तव में सामान्य जीवन से संबंधित है, वे लोग जो आत्महत्या करते हैं उनकी विचार प्रक्रिया अलग होती है। इसलिए हमें हमेशा अपने मानसिक संरक्षक को उस स्तर पर बनाने की कोशिश करनी चाहिए जहां जोखिम लेने की प्रेरणा और साहस मौजूद हो।
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Agree karti hun aapki baat se but maximum log haar jate hai jab unhe apno ka sath nahi milta aur na hi koi hope Hoti hai Saath aane ki kyuki vo emotionally relay krte hai apne closed ones par.
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Actually here I am not talking about the suicidal pattern or tendency. I am just trying to say how can we do from our side if we see anybody disturb or deeply sad from his or her life. Sometimes only hope to change the whole mindset. If the person is not good enough to handle it on his own then we must help them at least what he is trying to say?
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I really loved the way you have weaved this poem …hindi poems I always love more as I feel we can express more..this is a reality we should not give up in any situation
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Yes! We shouldn’t give up on the situations. Thank you for reading Ruchie.
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Ending one’s life is one of the saddest and most heartbreaking thing to do. What can be so depressing that you couldn’t share with anyone? The people who’re left behind have it even worse. So many questions are left unanswered.
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You are saying right dear. It is so sad now we have such embarrassing moments when we don’t have anyone to share what we feel.
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Sahi bola aapne. Sochte has toh bahut kuch aasan ho jaata hai. Har koi ko feelings share karna zaroori hai
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Hamse jude hue logo ki feeling samajna bhi jaruri hai. If anybody needs help we should come forward.
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Suicide is disturbing. But the story and environment that pushed the human such step is often unrecognized. People with suicidal tendencies need a caring guide which is hard to found. While we all repent after a death there are a handful of people who give a shoulder to cry.
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Very true. You just wrote the same which I want to convey through my poem. I think one hope, one positive moment can change the life.
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This is intriguing poem, feels connected. Jeetna hai Zindagi se, haarna Nahi hai
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Yeah! Zindagi ko jitana hai.
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This is such a strong poetry which each one must read. Depression can be fought and for that you need to come up and speak! Brilliant Deepika
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Thank you so much Jhilmil🙂
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One can definitely overcome depression but the thing is you should come towards and speak .. Loved this poem .
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Thanks, Snighda🙂 , Yes one should speak if he or she is suffering from some major issues.
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I like how you have expressed here. Hindi poems have a nice feel to them.
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Thanks Tina.
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Your stories are really close to human beings and so relatable I really like the way u take up issue which is going on
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Thank you so much for appreciation. Keep reading and supporting.
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There is a certain limitation till which we can bear sadness. If we dont get anyone to share our grief it goes beyond the limit. We blame the people who commit suicide, but do we ever think what might have led them to take such a harsh step!
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Yes! We are also responsible for that mishap because one ray of hope can change the negativity into some positives.
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I honestly love reading your posts, especially the Hindi ones. So much close to reality and real life.
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Thanks a lot Shalu. Jeep reading. I will try to write more on such topics.
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You have touched upon a very sensitive topic in such a simple and meaningful way. Kudos!
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Thanks a lot🙂 Yes! It is a sensitive topic and we should keep an eye of 👁️ what is happening around. If someone really needed our help we should come forward.
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Quite touchy! I have lived depression once, and know with experience it is a monster. The kind of a monster that will eat your sensibilities and the ability of judging right or wrong. So, yes it’s dreading to hear someone taking their own life, but we have to also understand the pressure in the ecosystem. Why ppl don’t open up and share what’s happening inside.
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I think because they might afraid of the feeling of judging. I feel we lost the sensibility and ability to understand other issues. We lost the quality of acceptance.
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