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Hello Friends!
How are you all? I hope you are doing good.
Today I am here to make an announcement.
5000 views completed on my blog!
I honestly don’t track views regularly.
I opened my blog’s insight today and I came to know that 5000 Views has been crossed.
I thought I should thank you all. And this is the best way to express my gratitude for all the readers.
“हौंसला अगर पक्का हो तो सपनों को भी पंख लग जाते हैं।
कोशिश अगर सच्ची हो तो मुश्किल में भी राह निकल आती है।
बस बढ़ाना हैं, एक एक कदम मंजिल की ओर
और मंजिल खुद फ़ासला कम करती जाती है।
#deepikawrites
I want to shout out for the WordPress community. They supported me in my ups and downs.
A big thanks to all the readers who supported me to grow as a motivational blogger and poet.
I am glad my new experiment through my poetries is liked by many of you.
I am overwhelmed. This is the result of the last 5 months of continuity & hard work.
This is not possible without your support. I am glad I started writing for Hindi readers also through my Hindi poetries.
Give your suggestions and feedbacks in the comment section below.
Regards & Gratitude
Deepika
Hello Friends,
I am a bit confused about where should I start?
Ok, I start with my school & college days. I was a bright student in my school & college as well. I scored very well. You can say I was an all-rounder kid.
You can read here the journey of Harsh Agrawal Shoutmeloud.com
https://www.shoutmeloud.com/harsh-agrawal-my-blogging-journey-so-far.html
Hello Everyone!
Today I am sharing some of my favourites lines written by me.
Don’t look for the fixed patterns, Create Your Own, Maybe you find the best one ever.#deepikawrites
I know, I am not good enough in languages. Words are only the medium. My heart speaks. #deepikawrites
Don’t lose hope ever. Believe in yourself. Definitely, you will get the success to find your own path. #deepikawrites
Some are talented by birth, Some work hard to make their hobby as their talent. Some discover that unique quality first which embedded in them and try to be a master of that. You say, In which category do you find yourself?#deepikawrites
Hi!
Welcome back!!!
I am back with a new post named Generation Gap.
Nowadays I am quite busy with my daughter’s school exams, mother in law’s health issues and some other miscellaneous works. That’s the reason I didn’t get the chance to publish any post.
It happens sometimes. According to the priority, some other things take back seat. Anyway, Let’s come to today’s topic, “Generation gap”
I think the difference of opinions, beliefs, values and practices between one generation and another generation is called the generation gap.
The gap of two or three decades between the two generations changes the thought process and practices of the younger ones.
It is true and we have to accept that Change is a continuous and gradual process. We should keep in the mind that differences will come on the basis of the thought process.
Today generation’s main focus on life style’s comfort and ease and secure their future first. On the other hand, another generation (old ones) is more focused on values and rituals. That creates conflict sometimes.
This is my observation and opinion, your thinking might be different.
Though three generations work simultaneously Self, Parents and Grandparents so it is obvious all the three generations will have their opinion, thinking and points to prove their logic.
We need to understand certain points, to understand the whole process.
1. Try to bridge the gap by listening, accepting and respecting the views and differences.
2. Try to maintain a better understanding by taking an effort to understand their point of view too.
3. Always keep in the mind that relationships are more valuable than differences. It takes lots of time, efforts and sacrifices to make a relationship stronger and on the other hand, it’s very easy to break within a second for various reasons.
4. Try to think about both the perspective, what will we think and how to react at the age of them. We will definitely get the answer.
5. At least try to fulfil their basic demands what they expected from you, your time, love, care and concern, whenever it is possible, show your concern for them.
6. Parents and grandparents should also try to understand the younger generation’s desires, passion, ambition towards their life.
7. Try to give an individual space to everyone. This is the main beauty of every relationship.
8. Don’t force anybody to live their lives in a certain way. Everybody has certain desires and goals for their life, let them free to live and where they need guidance, don’t hesitate to ask them.
9. Balance and adjustment is the key to solve all the misunderstandings. Some efforts from your side and some efforts from their side will help to make the life’s progressive, peaceful and happening.
These points are applicable to both generations. Sometimes first give and then get the formula works the best.
This is my way of thinking regarding this, what do you think and what is your point of view, please share with me through your comments.
Communication, discussion and then the conclusion is the best way to solve any problems. Be part of making the world happier.
Take care. Be happy and be productive.
Catch you all in the next one.
Regards & Gratitude,
Deepika
We all are unique. God gifted all with some of the special and unique qualities which make our unique personality. I can’t be same as like you & in the same way, you can’t be same as like me.
Everybody has a unique spark, desire or wish in which either they have the birth born talent or want to learn as a hobby & later continue as a passion or profession.
It is the most wonderful and happening thing of the world that which they actually love to do, exactly they do.
I totally agree with the fact that does what you love to do. It’s not about the competition, what the other people are doing, maybe they are doing what they love to do so don’t follow anyone blindly.
You discover your passion, what makes you feel happy. What you actually want to explore and pursue as a profession later.
How do you know that what your passion is?
Very simple, which makes you feel the happiest and out of the world. You don’t bother about the time and other things when you are doing that. This is the work as well as the fun for you, in which you feel alive. That would be your passion.
Now you found your passion and decided to make the profession the next step is to think and evaluate about the money.
We can’t ignore the fact that fulfil the basic needs is the biggest compulsion of life. We have to think about financial security too otherwise we will neither able to follow the passion nor get the financial stability.
Assume you are not getting enough through your passion turn profession, you can choose the alternate option because financial security must be the first priority when we don’t have any financial support from anywhere.
Now the question comes from where will this alternate option come. The answer is from your back up plan which you have to decide and plan earlier before picking up an option.
If this one is not working for them then they should switch to another one for getting some extra bucks which they are lacking for their survival.
Here one can continue with their passion or not, it’s totally their decision how they feel like to do.
If everything is going good & fantastic then no need to worry, continue with the same one, just adding some extra affects time to time.
My personal take is on that one should never drop that passion which he lives otherwise once in life he will feel regrated that he couldn’t take any efforts to start it.
In the end, I only want to add be prepared for everything, love yourself and others too, don’t think so much about the future, all the plannings do not work exactly always, live in the present, try to make the present better, future will definitely follow the path.
Take care, be happy always.
We all are unique. God gifted all with some of the special and unique qualities which make our unique personality. I can’t be same as like you & in the same way, you can’t be same as like me.
Everybody has a unique spark, desire or wish in which either they have the birth born talent or want to learn as a hobby & later continue as a passion or profession.
It is the most wonderful and happening thing of the world that which they actually love to do, exactly they do.
I totally agree with the fact that does what you love to do. It’s not about the competition, what the other people are doing, maybe they are doing what they love to do so don’t follow anyone blindly.
You discover your passion, what makes you feel happy. What you actually want to explore and pursue as a profession later.
How do you know that what your passion is?
Very simple, which makes you feel the happiest and out of the world. You don’t bother about the time and other things when you are doing that. This is the work as well as the fun for you, in which you feel alive. That would be your passion.
Now you found your passion and decided to make the profession the next step is to think and evaluate about the money.
We can’t ignore the fact that to fulfil the basic needs is the biggest compulsion of life. We have to think about financial security too otherwise we will neither able to follow the passion nor get the financial stability.
Assume you are not getting enough through your passion turn profession, you can choose the alternate option because financial security must be the first priority when we don’t have any financial support from anywhere.
Now the question comes from where will this alternate option come. The answer is from your back up plan which you have to decide and plan earlier before picking up an option.
If this one is not working for them then they should switch to another one for getting some extra bucks which they are lacking for their survival. Here one can continue with their passion or not, it’s totally their decision how they feel like to do.
If everything is going good, fantastic then no need to worry, continue with the same one, just adding some extra affects time to time.
My personal take is on that one should never drop that passion which he lives otherwise once in life he will feel regrated that he couldn’t take any efforts to start it.
In the end, I only want to add be prepared for everything, love yourself and others too, don’t think so much about the future, all the plannings do not work exactly always, live in the present, try to make the present better, future will definitely follow the path.
Take care, be happy always.
We all are unique. God gifted all with some of the special and unique qualities which make our unique personality. I can’t be same as like you & in the same way, you can’t be as like me.
Everybody has a unique spark, desire or wish in which either they have the birth born talent or want to learn as a hobby & later continue as a passion or profession.
It is the most wonderful and happening thing of the world that which they actually love to do, exactly they do.
I totally agree with the fact that does what you love to do. It’s not about the competition, what the other people are doing, maybe they are doing what they love to do so don’t follow anyone blindly.
You discover your passion, what makes you feel happy. What you actually want to explore and pursue as a profession later.
How do you come to know that what your passion is?
Very simple, which makes you feel the happiest and out of the world. You don’t bother about the time and other things when you are doing that. This is the work as well as the fun for you, in which you feel alive. That would be your passion.
Now you found your passion and decided to make the profession the next step is to think and evaluate about the money.
We can’t ignore the fact that to fulfil the basic needs is the biggest compulsion of life. We have to think about financial security too otherwise we will neither able to follow the passion nor get the financial stability.
Assume you are not getting enough through your passion turn profession, you can choose the alternate option because financial security must be the first priority when we don’t have any financial support from anywhere.
Now the question comes from where will this alternate option come. The answer is -through your back up plan which you have to decide and plan earlier before picking up an option.
If this one is not working for them then they should switch to another one for getting some extra bucks which they are lacking for their survival.
Here one can continue with their passion or not, it’s totally their decision how they feel like to do.
If everything is going good & fantastic then no need to worry, continue with the same one, just adding some extra effects time to time.
My personal take is on that one should never drop that passion which he lives otherwise once in life he will feel regrated that he couldn’t take any efforts to start it.
In the end, I only want to add be prepared for everything, love yourself and others too, don’t think so much about the future, all the plannings do not work exactly always, live in the present, try to make the present better, future will definitely follow the path.
Take care, be happy always. Catch you all in my next one.
Some people believe in destiny & some other belief to make their destiny by their own with their hard work & focused dedication but why sometimes they don’t get the expected results after doing the hard work.
I agree, there is no substitute for hard work & dedication but we can improve the chances of the success with smart work(here I mean hard work with a brain).
How smartly we can manage all the Choices and make a plan is more important. Planning & Prioritization of the work can increase the possibilities of results that we are expecting.
There is a possibility, we have to face failure after doing hard work too but that is not mean that we should lose the focus on that particular work and should stop doing that.
In that condition we have to find out where the things are going wrong, find the reasons and correct it and implement with the same passion, that is called the smart work.
Planning, Prioritization, check the loopholes & then Implementation will be the key to any successful task .
Learning, making mistakes, working on those mistakes, restructure it and implement with new twists all are the basics points of the smart work.
This is my way of thinking on smart work, others can think it in some other way & it might work for them too.
So in my opinion, smart work pays more than hard work. Without knowing all the aspects of the work and don’t keep a backup plan if the things don’t go according to the planning are not as fruitful as we expecting.
Accept the mistake immediately & start the work on plan ‘B’ without wasting a single minute will you make the stand in the line of achievers.
Hello friends!! How are you all?
Hoping all of you doing great.
Today let’s talk about the thing which every single person wants from their lives.
Guess…..What’s that?
The sound of the word, itself gives a soothing feeling but in actual, do we have that?
I don’t think so. What do you think?
Today we just try to find out some reasons and their solutions why is it happen?
Why we are not satisfied with our lives?
Every person has its own definition and ambitions towards life and this is also a fact that each and every person slightly or totally different from others…
I am sure we all can agree with this fact…
Yes, we agree but don’t accept. This is the major cause to be unsatisfied all the time.
Some are the following reasons according to me for dissatisfaction-
We all know that every person, their personalities, their expectations, their choices, their efforts, their approach and especially their “Karmas” are different from others.
Yes, I definitely do believe in “Karmas”.
“Whatever we do, we get in the same proportion as a result”.
Then why we want to be a part of this race of comparison unnecessarily.
https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/12/12/karmawhat-do-you-think-about/
2. Don’t know about our unique expertise-
We have to observe and improve our plus and minus points first and try to find “Real me“.
Find out that extra unique quality and work on it rather comparing with others.
We lose most of our valuable time while comparing us to others.
There is no need to do this because only we know ourselves in the best way.
We know very well what are our qualities and where we are lacking.
3. We lose hope–
Friends!! one thing is true Nothing can achieve easily without hard work dedication and patience.
“No substitute of hard work“.
We have to face a lot of challenges and difficulties while chasing our dream and passion but never lose hope.
https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/15/dont-loose-the-hope/
Believe me, friends!! at last, we will get it beyond our expectation.
4.Fear of Failure–
Most of the time we make our mind like this that we can’t do this. This will take some extra efforts that so I should drop the idea.
These type of negative thoughts come in our mind and we lose our patience at the very initial level. This is not the right way.
https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/23/failurean-experience/
Our job is to give our two hundred per cent, the rest is not in our hands so don’t feel demotivated if the results are not your favourite.
We have to choose what our inner voice is saying, follow your heart at that time because sometimes mind only gives you lots of confusions.
Don’t over think and don’t expect so much each and every time. Things will go to its place definitely. Believe in this psychology and never stop working on it.
I think these are the main reasons for dissatisfaction.
Now talk about what we can do. If we can improve all the given reasons then we will get solutions automatically.
1. Be honest with yourself–
If we are honest to ourselves then we know all our plus points and limitations then we will be more satisfied with choosing the work in which we are interested and obviously, our results will automatically better because we actually want to do that. That’s why it is important to follow our dreams.
2. Never compare an individual with other–
This is the biggest mistake we do.
As I discuss earlier every single person has their own lifestyle. Never be judgemental. If anyone’s life is better than you then try to see their hard work and approach towards life.
Be a human being with a big heart.
3. Be motivated–
Try to work on your hobbies and give some “Me time”. Whatever gives you inner peace and happiness just do it.
Try to think positive in every negative situation, something will come positive in the negative too so try to be positive because positivity changes the life completely, trust me it really works.
I think I include most of the points. If you want to add something from your side, let me know. So friends keep doing good work and always be happy. Take care.
My Aspiring Hope 