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Hello all !!! How are you doing?
I have an announcement for all of you. I have some commitments for this month as well as the next so may be possible I wouldn’t be able to publish the posts regularly.
Thanks a lot for all your support and hoping for the same as earlier!
I will try my level best to set a new schedule according to the new responsibilities. I am sure, I will come back with some of more daily life challanging and motivating topics. Till then take care. Be productive.
Happy Sunday.
!!!Success is not about only winning or losing!!!
In simple words, to achieve the goal which you planned for yourself which makes you feel happy and satisfief is called Success.
We can say it like this also, to accept the failure and come out from it gracefully and again make the mind to work and perform that leftover task, is the real form of success.
Everybody is chasing success desperately and they want this in their life anyhow but what are their criteria to measure success. Is this money, power, position, inner satisfaction or something else?
Everybody might be a different definition of their success.
I personally believe the growth of an individual from starting to till the end or at present where he is standing should be counted as his success.
Here growth of individual covers all the aspects of his life like social, personal, professional and spiritual as well. As the interest of an individual, he can choose his area of work where he wants to get success.
I believe, most of the people set their definition of success according to someone’s professional life only, how they are doing professionally.
Here I think slightly different, In my opinion, balance is very important in every aspect of life otherwise you will get success for a temporary period of time. You can’t pursue in the long run.
Think and tell who is more successful according to you. One who is doing excellent in his profession and the rest of the areas are terribly suffered or one who is good enough in his profession and also makes a good balance in other aspects of his life?
Who will be your choice?
According to me, In the end, the thing matter for me is how many other people are suffering from my decision in this race of success?
You want to win the race alone or want to give your shoulder as help to others. The choice is yours.
One more phenomenon is very common that one who is earning for the family is very successful and on the other hand who is doing 24 hours job without getting any penny is a big zero.
Do you agree?
I am not. Here we need to understand that the person contributes at home, knows his or her responsibilities very well and he or she wants a good balance in life that’s why he or she willingly chooses this for himself or herself. Please don’t give any tags to anyone regarding this.
Everybody is playing its individual role and getting his growth gradually so everybody should respect for this.
Success is not all about what other people are thinking about you. How you feel about your individual growth according to your capacities and capabilities is also counted as your success.
Everybody lives his life but what matters is that how he is living in actually?
Nobody should force to live his life in a certain way. As a human being one should at least get the right how he wants to live his life, it should be only his choice.
If somebody is happy with his messy things, let it be. Don’t judge on the basis of his weakness. It’s ok not to be successful according to other’s balance sheet. If you tried and do not ready to give up on your situations and satisfied with all your efforts and the results, you are also a winner in your own space.
Celebrate this and discover more chances for you. Continue with the process of growth you will surely get your goal.
Feel like a winner, think like a winner, you will get your power booster automatically, don’t put you in any pressure all the time.
Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?
In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.
On the other hand, some others live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.
I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing.
Why is it happen?
Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.
They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings. That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.
If you observe minutely then you get to know how earlier they set his mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that.
This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions. If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.
If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get reason is you only. You are the one who can change the things for you.
Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.
Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision. Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.
Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?
In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.
On the other hand, some people live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.
I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing. Why is it happen?
Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.
They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings.
That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.
If you observe minutely then you get to know, how they set their mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that. This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions.
If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.
If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get, try to find out the reason. You are the one who can change the things for yourself.
Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.
Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision.
Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.
Hello all! How are you doing? Hoping all is good!!
Yesterday I was reading an article & I was convinced with the words. I also started thinking about that yes this is very true and it’s happening with me also but at the same time, a question came into my mind why we judge others?
We are all different people, different people with different choices, different perspectives, different personalities, different priorities, different aims, different problems, different solutions everything is different in some or other way then how can we evaluate and judge some other people’s lives and activities?
I think this is wrong to compare one’s life to another. They are not like me and I am not like them.
We both have different abilities, different qualities, different plus, different minus, different thought processes and a different way to live our lives than logically where are the place and need of the comparison?
Everyone has its own thought process and experiences behind everything he does and reacts.
There is a reason why he or she is doing so? We never understand the reason why he is like that or behaving like that unless we go through the same circumstances and the same situations. Sometimes after knowing the reality, we don’t show any interest to know about that thing.
Why we are in so much hurry to judge anyone?
I only want to say to those peoples who only want to judge, Come to my place and try to live my life once and give the results which I am delivering in all the situations whether it is good or bad then only you come to know how difficult to handle all those situations which you neglect by saying that Oh! What special in that? What special are you doing?
If you don’t understand the things, then ask me. If you don’t agree to my viewpoint, my opinion, my reaction, it’s fair enough then clear your point.
If you don’t like anything at least say to me try to sort out. Here I notice some people don’t want to face that person to whom they are talking about? At least go and ask for the reasons why he did so.
In the end, I only want to say Judging someone is so easy but perform at their place might be so difficult for you so “Don’t Judge”. You don’t know the reasons and things what they have been going through and fighting for survival.
Try to respect others. Take care of yourselves and others too.
I hope you like today’s post. What do you think about it? Share with me. Stay tuned!!
Regards and Gratitude,
Deepika
“Trust is like a vase, Once it’s broken, though you can fix it, the vase will never be same again.”-Walter Anderson
I totally agree Getting trust is a steady process which grows and develops gradually, it’s not easy to earn someone’s trust immediately. You can’t get it within a night and you are not supposed to do it like this.
If someone is pouring their emotions then you should respect it because he or she showing faith in you. It takes a lot of time to be trustworthy.
All the relations and bonds are built on the trust either in the business or families or any other platforms.
Relationships are all about trust. If any lie discovered, then definitely doubt created in the mind and this will the first step to spoil the relation so don’t break the trust ever.
1.Selfishness– Most of the time the reason comes forward is selfishness. Some people make the relation to get the benifits only, no emotions, no sentiments are involved with the person.
Their only aim to use the person and when they succeeded ,they even don’t care about the other’s feelings.
2. So-called Competition-Now days only a few people think about the values and their duties. Most of the people are only involved in the race of being successful, being rich, being famous.
It’s not bad at an all but the thing which goes wrong is what mediums we are using to solve the purpose.
If someone trusts on you, respect that feeling and don’t break it ever.
All the things which you lose will come back but the broken trust never comes back.
3. Greediness– The people who have a tendency to get everything by hook or by crook, mostly they do so.
To fulfil their greed they make relations first then try to get trust and then find the best opportunity to cheat the other person.
1. Be honest- Always be honest about your work and the relations and the most important to yourself.
Don’t get affected much with other’s social and personal life. Set your rules to live your life, decide the criteria of do’s and don’ts.To get some benefits only, don’t let go of your values.
2. Try to understand the other’s emotions- We should understand the logic behind every situation. If we don’t like something then how the other person will like.
If you can’t take something, don’t give to others because it is sure you have to take all of those shits which you give to others.
If you understand this, you will never dare to hurt someone’s feelings.
3. Try to make your line bigger without making others shorter–
Don’t feel jealous. Work on yourself. Be confident. Maybe you can lose the best part or person of your life by hurting them. Life is so beautiful to live it gracefully.
“Give respect & earn respect”.
If you are not a trustworthy person I think you are lacking much more than that you think you have.
Hello all!!
Today I am going to talk about the topic which we all experienced so many times in our life.
Adjustments
Are you feeling heavy to listen to this word?
This is because we have already fixed the specific perception about the specific word and the person, somewhere in our subconscious mind.
Whenever we listen to that specific word or think about the person, related feeling with those particular automatically comes in our mind and In advance, we start to feel uncomfortable.
We start to think about only the negative part of that like now we have to do that thing which we never want to do.
Like we think now we have to do compromises but we don’t want to come out from our comfort zone, that’s why we start to feel uncomfortable.
Why should we not think about the positive part of that situation too? Why we always make adjustments in the negative sense always?
Why I am saying all those things because I want to relate my point with that specific thing when we are standing in the situation of adjustment. How our state of mind works at that time?
If we take it positively we can do much more productive and fruitful above our expectations.
What can we do?
First of all, we can try to start with the basics. What are the current situations? What are the options available? What are the dos and donts for the situation??
We have to calculate all the aspects of the situations they come to pick the best option which is available at that time.
In actual, Adjustments are nothing, only based on balancing the situation with our wisdom to improve the outcome of the situation. If we use this in the correct way this can be key to unlock the trouble.
Here I want to quote the words-
“We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails-Dolly Parton”
Let’s take a real-life example to understand it. Suppose If we are in the situation where we are helpless, no other options we have, we know we have to do it at anyhow either we want to do or not.
We cannot avoid it at all now you think what would be the better idea. Either stand against the situation and persons which are related to that or sit calmly, understand the situation, our role in the whole process and now what can we do something better in the situation. I know the second idea is not easy but at least we can try it.
Think. If somebody is completely dependent on you or want help from your side and he is in the helplessness situation, you know that you are the only hope for him then how can you go in the denial mode.
Here we have to make our mind that I am the special one to whom God gave the chance and opportunity to perform the best part in a different way.
Believe me, we will feel some special kind of energy and here all our efforts for adjustments can change the whole situation.
Here I agree, we have to face some troubles and discomforts too because we have to do something extra from the routine. Perhaps our adjustments would be the boon for someone else.
If our efforts, our adjustments can do some positive change in some other person’s life then go for a check at least once and then see what the inner satisfaction you get for yourself which you never feel before.
I am not saying we should do adjustments always but when it necessary and good for someone else too, just take a try.
Now ending with the question adjustments good or bad? take your call on this.
“Time Management” is the process of organizing and planning the time.
This is the art of dividing and spending time on specific activities according to their priorities to increase productivity.
The main objective of Time Management is to reduce the time which we spend on non-productive activities.
We all have the same 24 hours in a day and the real challenge is how to manage and utilise these hours in a productive way.
This really makes a difference a lot how we are utilising our 24 hours and what output we are getting through it.
Now come to today’s topic, I am also a homemaker and as a homemaker, it is a very difficult task for me too to distribute my time between my priorities and needs.
This is absolutely true, as a homemaker we have lots of responsibilities towards our family and kids. The most hectic part of a homemaker is to follow almost the same daily routine.
Here I want to share that I am also a mother of two small kids and with kids, life may be unpredictable, messy and the more stressful because all the things don’t always go as planned with them. So we have to accept this truth and act accordingly.
Here are some rules which I follow might be helpful for you all. These are::
1. Do Planning for according to our family needs–
If you are not able to do, a whole week planning so at least you should go for daily planning. For daily planning, we have to categorise the things according to the schedule. This will help you to be sorted for the rest of the day. Daily planning we can do in the night for the next day.
2.Set the routine especially for the morning time–
The morning routine can be the lifesavers. If we get success to set our morning routine smartly then rest will set automatically because most of the prioritize work we have already finished in the morning but the only condition is this we have to follow the routine strictly.
We have the maximum energy in the morning so we have to plan the things according to this and utilise the time efficiently.
3. Make a to-do list–
Set the targets for the day on the basis of priority and make a to-do list but here I want to mention one thing,only 2 or 3 main & special tasks should be included besides the routine otherwise we will not able to finish our targets in the same day and the to-do list will convert into the pending work list.
4. Fix the time for social media like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc.–
It is true and nobody can be denied the fact, intentionally or unintentionally we spend hours and hours on social media only scrolling and going through the other’s profile. If you are doing some work using social media platforms then also you have to set your hours. This will save you lots of time which you can use to finish your pending works.
5. Be smart in choosing and picking task–
Select the most productive time for yourself when you feel the most energetic and productive. Save the time by doing the things which will take only 5 minutes to do, do it at that time only, don’t delay for tomorrow until and unless you are sick or any medical issue you have.
6. Identify the unnecessary & unwanted things-
Identify the unnecessary & unwanted things which are taking lots of time and spoil our planning. Eliminate that immediately. Here I am talking about gossiping. We waste our lots of valuable time only talking about other’s minus points.
7. Appreciate yourself-
If you follow all the things and getting success to execute them then pat on your back yourself. Accomplishing small goals give also lots of confidence and satisfaction so keep doing this.
In this way, time management plays a keen role to organise our life. This is all for today, will come back with some topic in the next one, take care and be productive.
Happiness is an emotional state or feeling of satisfaction. When we feel satisfied with the certain things that are going in the right direction and are getting the expected results. We feel happy about it.
I think happiness is a choice where we can try to be happy. It doesn’t mean that everything is perfect but we can decide to accept all the imperfections and look beyond it.
For being happy we can follow these following things:::
Every child is an artist, the problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up—Pablo Picasso
As a parent, we always try to teach them but there are so many things we can learn from them, some are-
They are just like the flowers, let them blossom & try to sacrifice our today so that our children can have the better tomorrow.
My Aspiring Hope 