Sorry Papa!

It is true that we rarely express our love and emotional connect towards our fathers.

I generally talk about my beloved “Maa”, but no doubt, I am my Papa’s princess and he is my hero too.
I have expressed my feelings about him in one of my poem.

” Daddy’s Princess”

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2019/04/04/day-4-daddys-princess/

We often fail to express our gratitude towards our fathers but thanks to Vartika for giving me a reason to write about him.

I am feeling quite emotional while writing this post because I am sharing some of the moments of my life which I never expressed before.

I do remember being close to my father in my early childhood, most of my daily routine chores were taken care by my father till my adolescence because I have a younger brother too and my mum was looking after him.

But as time passed and I entered teenage I felt my connection with papa lacking that special warmth because of whatever reasons.

Maybe he was so strict in some specific situations and maybe my maa always had that extra soft corner towards me and my younger brother.

Now I understand that I was totally wrong. I was only concerned about my point of view and literally made no effort to understand what he believed.

But after marriage when I am observing my husband now in the role of my kid’s father, I can easily understand those emotions and concern of a father.

Sorry, Papa! I was wrong at that time. Sorry for all the mistakes which I ever made. Sorry for disconnecting and not listening to your thoughts. Sorry, Papa!
This is the small tribute from my side to all the fathers.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2019/06/16/happy-fathers-day/

Now I realise & feel that all the sacrifices which you made for us. Now I understand, how you managed everything even in the worst situations.

I saw your anger only but now Papa, I understand what you were facing at that time. How difficult it was to handle all the expenses being the only earning member.

But now I feel very proud that I am your daughter. I also try to not give up in tough situations as you set an example for me.

Love you papa and salute you for your every single effort. I know you are always concerned about my bright future even now so I promise you papa I will never let you down.

Love you, Papa!

Forgiveness

Meaning of Forgiveness-

Forgiveness is the gesture of letting go of those emotions or feelings which we hold willingly or unwillingly.

Sometimes we don’t want to come out of that zone which we self-created in our mind and blame others that they are doing repetitively.

Lets talk about the possibilities!

Suppose!!

If someone did very wrong with you, then two possibilities are there-

(a) Intentionally: That person wants to do so willingly.

(b) Unintentionally: His intention was not wrong although he did it by mistake.

If we know the reason then it will easy to consider his situation and forgive him.

Unintentionally-

If the person hurt you unintentionally then there is no

reason to hold that grudge for a long time and give torture to yourself because that person will never feel that emotion which you made in your mind.

So the point is trying to come out from that feeling & zone and understand both the situations because in that condition only your energy is depleting by thinking again & again and by making the web of negative thoughts.

Solution-

Now the solution is if we know he did unintentionally then forgive immediately and start with the new slate.

Intetionally-

In the other situation, when you knoe about that he is doing intentionally, Moto is crystal clear he wants to disturb you and wants to divert your focus from your aim & work.

Then it should be more easier than earlier because we know his moto so it’s easy to ignore all those words & actions.

After sometimes when they will realise that those things are not affecting you anymore, they will automatically drop the idea of bullying you.

And in the last, If the mistake is yours then don’t feel any shame to accept your mistake and say sorry.

If the person doesn’t accept the sorry at that time then you don’t need to feel offended because the mistake is your and the other person felt insulted and hurt then try some other way to convince him but don’t stop communicating with that person.

So, In the end, I only want to say, Forgive Others and Spread Happiness.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/21/happinessa-choice/

I will catch you in the next one, till then, take care and be happy.

Regards & Gratitude,

Deepika