Don’t Judge!!!!!

Hello all! How are you doing? Hoping all is good!!

Yesterday I was reading an article & I was convinced with the words. I also started thinking about that yes this is very true and it’s happening with me also but at the same time, a question came into my mind why we judge others?

We are all different people, different people with different choices, different perspectives, different personalities, different priorities, different aims, different problems, different solutions everything is different in some or other way then how can we evaluate and judge some other people’s lives and activities?

I think this is wrong to compare one’s life to another. They are not like me and I am not like them.

We both have different abilities, different qualities, different plus, different minus, different thought processes and a different way to live our lives than logically where are the place and need of the comparison?

Everyone has its own thought process and experiences behind everything he does and reacts.

There is a reason why he or she is doing so? We never understand the reason why he is like that or behaving like that unless we go through the same circumstances and the same situations. Sometimes after knowing the reality, we don’t show any interest to know about that thing.

Why we are in so much hurry to judge anyone?

I only want to say to those peoples who only want to judge, Come to my place and try to live my life once and give the results which I am delivering in all the situations whether it is good or bad then only you come to know how difficult to handle all those situations which you neglect by saying that Oh! What special in that? What special are you doing?

If you don’t understand the things, then ask me. If you don’t agree to my viewpoint, my opinion, my reaction, it’s fair enough then clear your point.

If you don’t like anything at least say to me try to sort out. Here I notice some people don’t want to face that person to whom they are talking about? At least go and ask for the reasons why he did so.

In the end, I only want to say Judging someone is so easy but perform at their place might be so difficult for you so “Don’t Judge”. You don’t know the reasons and things what they have been going through and fighting for survival.

Try to respect others. Take care of yourselves and others too.

I hope you like today’s post. What do you think about it? Share with me. Stay tuned!!

Regards and Gratitude,

Deepika

Satisfaction

Hello friends!! How are you all?

Hoping all of you doing great.

Today let’s talk about the thing which every single person wants from their lives.

Guess…..What’s that?

Satisfaction

The sound of the word, itself gives a soothing feeling but in actual, do we have that?

Do we feel like satisfied?

I don’t think so. What do you think?

Today we just try to find out some reasons and their solutions why is it happen?

Why we are not satisfied with our lives?

Every person has its own definition and ambitions towards life and this is also a fact that each and every person slightly or totally different from others…

I am sure we all can agree with this fact…

Yes, we agree but don’t accept. This is the major cause to be unsatisfied all the time.

Some are the following reasons according to me for dissatisfaction-

Reasons-

1. We compare our lives with others

We all know that every person, their personalities, their expectations, their choices, their efforts, their approach and especially their “Karmas” are different from others.

Yes, I definitely do believe in “Karmas”.

“Whatever we do, we get in the same proportion as a result”.

Then why we want to be a part of this race of comparison unnecessarily.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/12/12/karmawhat-do-you-think-about/

2. Don’t know about our unique expertise-

We have to observe and improve our plus and minus points first and try to find “Real me“.

Find out that extra unique quality and work on it rather comparing with others.

We lose most of our valuable time while comparing us to others.

There is no need to do this because only we know ourselves in the best way.

We know very well what are our qualities and where we are lacking.

3. We lose hope

Friends!! one thing is true Nothing can achieve easily without hard work dedication and patience.

No substitute of hard work“.

We have to face a lot of challenges and difficulties while chasing our dream and passion but never lose hope.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/15/dont-loose-the-hope/

Believe me, friends!! at last, we will get it beyond our expectation.

4.Fear of Failure

Most of the time we make our mind like this that we can’t do this. This will take some extra efforts that so I should drop the idea.

These type of negative thoughts come in our mind and we lose our patience at the very initial level. This is not the right way.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/23/failurean-experience/

Our job is to give our two hundred per cent, the rest is not in our hands so don’t feel demotivated if the results are not your favourite.

We have to choose what our inner voice is saying, follow your heart at that time because sometimes mind only gives you lots of confusions.

Don’t over think and don’t expect so much each and every time. Things will go to its place definitely. Believe in this psychology and never stop working on it.

I think these are the main reasons for dissatisfaction.

Now talk about what we can do. If we can improve all the given reasons then we will get solutions automatically.

Solutions-

1. Be honest with yourself

If we are honest to ourselves then we know all our plus points and limitations then we will be more satisfied with choosing the work in which we are interested and obviously, our results will automatically better because we actually want to do that. That’s why it is important to follow our dreams.

2. Never compare an individual with other

This is the biggest mistake we do.

As I discuss earlier every single person has their own lifestyle. Never be judgemental. If anyone’s life is better than you then try to see their hard work and approach towards life.

Be a human being with a big heart.

3. Be motivated

Try to work on your hobbies and give some “Me time”. Whatever gives you inner peace and happiness just do it.

Try to think positive in every negative situation, something will come positive in the negative too so try to be positive because positivity changes the life completely, trust me it really works.

I think I include most of the points. If you want to add something from your side, let me know. So friends keep doing good work and always be happy. Take care.