Today I am going to talk about the topic which we all experienced so many times in our life.
Are you feeling heavy to listen to this word?
This is because we have already fixed the specific perception about the specific word and the person, somewhere in our subconscious mind.
Whenever we listen to that specific word or think about the person, related feeling with those particular automatically comes in our mind and In advance, we start to feel uncomfortable.
We start to think about only the negative part of that like now we have to do that thing which we never want to do.
Like we think now we have to do compromises but we don’t want to come out from our comfort zone, that’s why we start to feel uncomfortable.
Why should we not think about the positive part of that situation too? Why we always make adjustments in the negative sense always?
Why I am saying all those things because I want to relate my point with that specific thing when we are standing in the situation of adjustment. How our state of mind works at that time?
If we take it positively we can do much more productive and fruitful above our expectations.
What can we do?
First of all, we can try to start with the basics. What are the current situations? What are the options available? What are the dos and donts for the situation??
We have to calculate all the aspects of the situations they come to pick the best option which is available at that time.
In actual, Adjustments are nothing, only based on balancing the situation with our wisdom to improve the outcome of the situation. If we use this in the correct way this can be key to unlock the trouble.
Here I want to quote the words-
“We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails-Dolly Parton”
Let’s take a real-life example to understand it. Suppose If we are in the situation where we are helpless, no other options we have, we know we have to do it at anyhow either we want to do or not.
We cannot avoid it at all now you think what would be the better idea. Either stand against the situation and persons which are related to that or sit calmly, understand the situation, our role in the whole process and now what can we do something better in the situation. I know the second idea is not easy but at least we can try it.
Think. If somebody is completely dependent on you or want help from your side and he is in the helplessness situation, you know that you are the only hope for him then how can you go in the denial mode.
Here we have to make our mind that I am the special one to whom God gave the chance and opportunity to perform the best part in a different way.
Believe me, we will feel some special kind of energy and here all our efforts for adjustments can change the whole situation.
Here I agree, we have to face some troubles and discomforts too because we have to do something extra from the routine. Perhaps our adjustments would be the boon for someone else.
If our efforts, our adjustments can do some positive change in some other person’s life then go for a check at least once and then see what the inner satisfaction you get for yourself which you never feel before.
I am not saying we should do adjustments always but when it necessary and good for someone else too, just take a try.
Now ending with the question adjustments good or bad? take your call on this.