Hard work With Brain

Some people believe in destiny & some other belief to make their destiny by their own with their hard work & focused dedication but why sometimes they don’t get the expected results after doing the hard work.

I agree, there is no substitute for hard work & dedication but we can improve the chances of the success with smart work(here I mean hard work with a brain).

How smartly we can manage all the Choices and make a plan is more important. Planning & Prioritization of the work can increase the possibilities of results that we are expecting.

There is a possibility, we have to face failure after doing hard work too but that is not mean that we should lose the focus on that particular work and should stop doing that.

In that condition we have to find out where the things are going wrong, find the reasons and correct it and implement with the same passion, that is called the smart work.

Planning, Prioritization, check the loopholes & then Implementation will be the key to any successful task .

Learning, making mistakes, working on those mistakes, restructure it and implement with new twists all are the basics points of the smart work.

This is my way of thinking on smart work, others can think it in some other way & it might work for them too.

So in my opinion, smart work pays more than hard work. Without knowing all the aspects of the work and don’t keep a backup plan if the things don’t go according to the planning are not as fruitful as we expecting.

Accept the mistake immediately & start the work on plan ‘B’ without wasting a single minute will you make the stand in the line of achievers.

Forgiveness

Meaning of Forgiveness-

Forgiveness is the gesture of letting go of those emotions or feelings which we hold willingly or unwillingly.

Sometimes we don’t want to come out of that zone which we self-created in our mind and blame others that they are doing repetitively.

Lets talk about the possibilities!

Suppose!!

If someone did very wrong with you, then two possibilities are there-

(a) Intentionally: That person wants to do so willingly.

(b) Unintentionally: His intention was not wrong although he did it by mistake.

If we know the reason then it will easy to consider his situation and forgive him.

Unintentionally-

If the person hurt you unintentionally then there is no

reason to hold that grudge for a long time and give torture to yourself because that person will never feel that emotion which you made in your mind.

So the point is trying to come out from that feeling & zone and understand both the situations because in that condition only your energy is depleting by thinking again & again and by making the web of negative thoughts.

Solution-

Now the solution is if we know he did unintentionally then forgive immediately and start with the new slate.

Intetionally-

In the other situation, when you knoe about that he is doing intentionally, Moto is crystal clear he wants to disturb you and wants to divert your focus from your aim & work.

Then it should be more easier than earlier because we know his moto so it’s easy to ignore all those words & actions.

After sometimes when they will realise that those things are not affecting you anymore, they will automatically drop the idea of bullying you.

And in the last, If the mistake is yours then don’t feel any shame to accept your mistake and say sorry.

If the person doesn’t accept the sorry at that time then you don’t need to feel offended because the mistake is your and the other person felt insulted and hurt then try some other way to convince him but don’t stop communicating with that person.

So, In the end, I only want to say, Forgive Others and Spread Happiness.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/21/happinessa-choice/

I will catch you in the next one, till then, take care and be happy.

Regards & Gratitude,

Deepika