Patience: Slow and steady wins the race. What do you say?

Hello all!!!

This month is full of challenges for me, I was not well and after two or three days of my recovery, my son got ill. Daughter’s school exam then PTM, my pending work schedule, hubby’s office audit work, back to back things were lined up, mother in law’s eye check up & health issues then my daughter fell sick, no chance to sit quietly and think and write my views.

Anyways, This is the life, full of adventures and challenges at the same time. You say, what is going on in your life?

Today I want to share which I experienced in the past couple of days, the power of patience.

Patience is the ability to accept things which are not performing according to you.

Think of the difference between the patient and calm person and the impatient person.

Patient person calmly thinks all over the issues then decide what is the best to do in the particular situation, on the other hand, an impatient person simply reacts first without thinking on what the situation is demanding. Sometimes, he has to pay for this also.

Each and everything takes their own time to flourish. Hurry and rush sometimes spoil the things. Let the things allow to take their own time to grow.

How patience plays their role in our life-

1. Anything you start, like a carrier or a business or anything new, have patience. You can’t get the best results in one night, this is not a magic that you wish for something and that appears. You have to work hard with dedication in the right direction and wait for the results, how things are going?

2. Patience in Relationships-As I said earlier, everything takes its own time to grow and flourish, the same thing applies here also, firstly you have to understand the person then try to make your bond stronger, then also things are not working then go for other options. Give up in the starting without understanding the things is not a wise decision.

3. Patience’s role in the family-Every family is beautiful and has some scope the enhance the beauty of this with small efforts. Listen to every family members views and wishes patiently and then make a consensus is the sign of a healthy family. Only one is making decisions and others are only following is not good for the long run.

What is your take on this? Please share your views in the comment section.

I will catch you all in the next one, till then take care, be happy and the most important be healthy.

Optimism: The Biggest Strength

Optimism is the art of taking out something good in every adverse situation. It is the belief, the hope, the positive attitude where these all elements try to make a positive aura for all the events.

It is also the choice where we try to feel positive about everything which is happening with us or around us, it is also the belief where we know, we have the choice to make our own destiny.

Optimism is the practice to be hopeful and positive & give weight to the best possible part of any situation.

Points which help to make a practice of optimism:

1. Focus always on the solutions which are available at that time, rather complaining about the problems. Problems will definitely come at every step of life, we can’t help ourselves in it, to accept and make our mind for the best one.

2. Think and find the different possibilities & solutions of the specific situation and get ready for yourself to perform in it.

3. Healthy mind always stays in only a healthy body so always give the first priority to your health. If we are fit and healthy everything we are planning can go for the execution. If we are only thinking, not performing, not executing then nothing will work for us.

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4. Less expectations from others will make our practice stronger. Believe in yourself that God gave us all the abilities which are necessary to execute all the works. Think confident about yourself that I have the potential to get success if I put my hundred per cent in that.

5. Focus more on the positivity and the positive attitude. It doesn’t mean that ignore all the problems and don’t try to find the solutions. It only means that find out what is going wrong and concentrate on correcting them.

6. Be a wide thinker and always keep that space in your mind where you can give some preference to others also.

If we practice on these points, definitely there will be a change in our attitude and we can improve in those things where we are lacking.

Optimism is one of the biggest strength of someone’s personality. It reduces stress, fear and all the negativity.

An optimistic person always spread good vibes and make the aura positive. People always share great energy with them.

So in the end, I can only say keep practising optimism. Good luck! Have a good day ahead.