Make your passion,your profession::Do you Agree?

We all are unique. God gifted all with some of the special and unique qualities which make our unique personality. I can’t be same as like you & in the same way, you can’t be as like me.

Everybody has a unique spark, desire or wish in which either they have the birth born talent or want to learn as a hobby & later continue as a passion or profession.

It is the most wonderful and happening thing of the world that which they actually love to do, exactly they do.

I totally agree with the fact that does what you love to do. It’s not about the competition, what the other people are doing, maybe they are doing what they love to do so don’t follow anyone blindly.

You discover your passion, what makes you feel happy. What you actually want to explore and pursue as a profession later.

How do you come to know that what your passion is?

Very simple, which makes you feel the happiest and out of the world. You don’t bother about the time and other things when you are doing that. This is the work as well as the fun for you, in which you feel alive. That would be your passion.

Now you found your passion and decided to make the profession the next step is to think and evaluate about the money.

We can’t ignore the fact that to fulfil the basic needs is the biggest compulsion of life. We have to think about financial security too otherwise we will neither able to follow the passion nor get the financial stability.

Assume you are not getting enough through your passion turn profession, you can choose the alternate option because financial security must be the first priority when we don’t have any financial support from anywhere.

Now the question comes from where will this alternate option come. The answer is -through your back up plan which you have to decide and plan earlier before picking up an option.

If this one is not working for them then they should switch to another one for getting some extra bucks which they are lacking for their survival.

Here one can continue with their passion or not, it’s totally their decision how they feel like to do.

If everything is going good & fantastic then no need to worry, continue with the same one, just adding some extra effects time to time.

My personal take is on that one should never drop that passion which he lives otherwise once in life he will feel regrated that he couldn’t take any efforts to start it.

In the end, I only want to add be prepared for everything, love yourself and others too, don’t think so much about the future, all the plannings do not work exactly always, live in the present, try to make the present better, future will definitely follow the path.

Take care, be happy always. Catch you all in my next one.

Time management for Home Makers

“Time Management” is the process of organizing and planning the time.

This is the art of dividing and spending time on specific activities according to their priorities to increase productivity.

The main objective of Time Management is to reduce the time which we spend on non-productive activities.

We all have the same 24 hours in a day and the real challenge is how to manage and utilise these hours in a productive way.

This really makes a difference a lot how we are utilising our 24 hours and what output we are getting through it.

Now come to today’s topic, I am also a homemaker and as a homemaker, it is a very difficult task for me too to distribute my time between my priorities and needs.

This is absolutely true, as a homemaker we have lots of responsibilities towards our family and kids. The most hectic part of a homemaker is to follow almost the same daily routine.

Here I want to share that I am also a mother of two small kids and with kids, life may be unpredictable, messy and the more stressful because all the things don’t always go as planned with them. So we have to accept this truth and act accordingly.

Here are some rules which I follow might be helpful for you all. These are::

1. Do Planning for according to our family needs

If you are not able to do, a whole week planning so at least you should go for daily planning. For daily planning, we have to categorise the things according to the schedule. This will help you to be sorted for the rest of the day. Daily planning we can do in the night for the next day.

2.Set the routine especially for the morning time

The morning routine can be the lifesavers. If we get success to set our morning routine smartly then rest will set automatically because most of the prioritize work we have already finished in the morning but the only condition is this we have to follow the routine strictly.

We have the maximum energy in the morning so we have to plan the things according to this and utilise the time efficiently.

3. Make a to-do list

Set the targets for the day on the basis of priority and make a to-do list but here I want to mention one thing,only 2 or 3 main & special tasks should be included besides the routine otherwise we will not able to finish our targets in the same day and the to-do list will convert into the pending work list.

4. Fix the time for social media like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc.

It is true and nobody can be denied the fact, intentionally or unintentionally we spend hours and hours on social media only scrolling and going through the other’s profile. If you are doing some work using social media platforms then also you have to set your hours. This will save you lots of time which you can use to finish your pending works.

5. Be smart in choosing and picking task

Select the most productive time for yourself when you feel the most energetic and productive. Save the time by doing the things which will take only 5 minutes to do, do it at that time only, don’t delay for tomorrow until and unless you are sick or any medical issue you have.

6. Identify the unnecessary & unwanted things-

Identify the unnecessary & unwanted things which are taking lots of time and spoil our planning. Eliminate that immediately. Here I am talking about gossiping. We waste our lots of valuable time only talking about other’s minus points.

7. Appreciate yourself-

If you follow all the things and getting success to execute them then pat on your back yourself. Accomplishing small goals give also lots of confidence and satisfaction so keep doing this.

In this way, time management plays a keen role to organise our life. This is all for today, will come back with some topic in the next one, take care and be productive.

Life is too short:Really?

Life is too short to live and experience the wonderful things!!!…

Do you think so? What do you think about life?

Tell me your point of view in the comment section.

I think, it is. We never know what will happen in the next moment.

Life is so unpredictable and full of adventures, drama, comedy & actions and actually, we can say this is the real charm of life.

If these things are not taken place then no thrill, no excitement, no zeal, no challenges come in the life and we don’t value the things which we already have. These situations teach us how to accept unwanted things.

I think whatever we do in our lives, the ultimate goal is peace, happiness and satisfaction. The medium can be different for different people but I think Moto is quite clear because all the materialistic things can give comfort and luxury only but that is also a fact that these all are a very important part of our life, one can’t be denied that fact.

Here is the question is when we have all the luxurious items and comfort then also we are not happy and satisfied because that thing can’t give inner peace, happiness and satisfaction.

So what can we do, we can take some small steps for all the things which we want to do for ourselves and for others too.

Don’t give up at any stage of life, if one formula is not working, try for another and the other one is also not working should go for something else, never stop trying and finding that special one which is “only made for you“.

Everyone is special in some other way.

Give respect and do the value of the life which we get as a human being, different from other creatures.

Live your dreams and be a good human being first, rest all the things will come automatically side by side with the dedicated efforts.

Thankfulness & gratitude are the gestures that have the power to make someone else happy so don’t let it go, be happy and spread the happiness.

At the end of life, only two things will matter (a)what we gave to others (b) and reciprocal what we received.

Failure::An Experience

Failure is the result when we don’t reach the goal which we either decide for ourselves or decided by someone else where we have to give results on the basis of the performance.

We should take failure as an experience. If we will never fail then we will never learn that chapter of the life.

How can failure be the game changer and help to trigger to choose the right direction::

1. First of all, we have to set our mind that nobody is perfect here. 100 Percent Perfection is totally an imagination.

2. When somebody starts a work, they start with the learning point of view & If they are learning they will do mistakes and that mistakes help them to make a strong base in that particular field and will help them further in some other way so don’t much bother about that failure which we get in the process of learning because efforts never go in vain.

3. I think this is the basic difference between the successful person and the struggler. Successful people don’t get so emotional on their defeat. They channelise the energy and efforts again in the right direction.

4. They never lose hope, try and try again and get the success in the end. Learn from the mistakes and ensure that those mistakes don’t repeat in future again.

5. If we are not getting success with the same formula then try to find a new point of view with some twist. We have to find out the new ideas and the new opportunities to establish that thought process and focus on the disciplined planning and right execution steps.

6.”Experience is the best teacher“, we have to understand the truth that we are taking the real experience through failure which will be the first step of success in future. There is no any example about that person who never went wrong and achieved all the goals.

7. Watch all the success stories and go through with them then you come to know, how many times they faced failure, criticism and rejections but never gave up and the most common things about them they came again with a solid plan and double energy and this is true if we are enough mentally strong then nobody can ever dare the change our determination.

8. Don’t bother about the people, they will talk, they will criticise, let them talk. Avoid all the negativity and never stop to work on that tiny steps which must be the biggest one in the future.

9.With the support of the family and true friends, we can achieve the difficult targets too and don’t worry if nobody is there with you, be strong enough to handle it with your own. Don’t step back because, in the end, one should fight his own battle without any support.

So with this note, I am ending here. Lots of best wishes to all of them who are busy changing their efforts to succeed.All the very best to all of you.

Happiness:A choice

Happiness is an emotional state or feeling of satisfaction. When we feel satisfied with the certain things that are going in the right direction and are getting the expected results. We feel happy about it.

I think happiness is a choice where we can try to be happy. It doesn’t mean that everything is perfect but we can decide to accept all the imperfections and look beyond it.

For being happy we can follow these following things:::

  1. Avoid negativity and negative people.
  2. Don’t compare your life with others.
  3. Accept the past, live in the present and don’t feel worried about the future.
  4. Give credit to yourselves and don’t expect so much from others. Pamper yourselves too.
  5. Enjoy and celebrate every small moment of our life.
  6. Don’t take shortcuts to accomplish the goals because the end result will be definitely not in your favour.
  7. Find reasons to be happy in stressful situations too.
  8. Be mentally and physically fit then only we can be emotionally fit.
  9. Try to think positive because positivity definitely gives us hope to think above all the negatives.
  10. Talk with our loved ones and be connected with family and good friends.
  11. Take a short break from routine and spend some time with nature, go for an outing.
  12. Follow your senses and go with them. Give some time to your hobby & passion. This will also give you inner satisfaction.

Hard work With Brain

Some people believe in destiny & some other belief to make their destiny by their own with their hard work & focused dedication but why sometimes they don’t get the expected results after doing the hard work.

I agree, there is no substitute for hard work & dedication but we can improve the chances of the success with smart work(here I mean hard work with a brain).

How smartly we can manage all the Choices and make a plan is more important. Planning & Prioritization of the work can increase the possibilities of results that we are expecting.

There is a possibility, we have to face failure after doing hard work too but that is not mean that we should lose the focus on that particular work and should stop doing that.

In that condition we have to find out where the things are going wrong, find the reasons and correct it and implement with the same passion, that is called the smart work.

Planning, Prioritization, check the loopholes & then Implementation will be the key to any successful task .

Learning, making mistakes, working on those mistakes, restructure it and implement with new twists all are the basics points of the smart work.

This is my way of thinking on smart work, others can think it in some other way & it might work for them too.

So in my opinion, smart work pays more than hard work. Without knowing all the aspects of the work and don’t keep a backup plan if the things don’t go according to the planning are not as fruitful as we expecting.

Accept the mistake immediately & start the work on plan ‘B’ without wasting a single minute will you make the stand in the line of achievers.

Spirituality Or Practicality

Is it wrong to follow the Spirituality and Keep aside the practical wisdom for some reasons?

I don’t think so. I know these are the choices & one is completely free to pick their choices.

Here I am talking about spirituality in the “Karmas“.

Before taking any steps, one should always keep in the mind about the end results of that.

Spirituality always pay you back and the same thing applies to the other gestures, that’s how life goes & works.

Whatever you give to your life, life reverts back so you have to decide your path accordingly.

I know, It’s sound very different but I think it’s ok to think in that way too, then only we will come to know and understand about this.

The medium we choose to complete our goals, it’s should be like that what we expect from others.

Things are judged only when they affect us Otherwise everything is practical and seems perfectly right.

For the sake of money, position, and ambition, we are compromising with the values and ignoring our inner voice.

Maximum time our consciousness warn us that what medium we are choosing is wrong but we ignore that.

To be practical is ok but don’t compromise with the moralities and the qualities which already we have as a human being but nowadays we don’t use them often and the people who choose that path and want to follow that, are called fake.

The decision is only yours because life is yours. Choose the path wisely.

Don’t loose the hope

Every time it is not possible, things flow in the same direction where we want.

Don’t lose the hope and give the equal challenge to life and prove that I can handle it.

I am strong enough to bear all that situations that I would never want in my life………

Keep it in the mind that the tough time is for giving something better to us.

Collect all the courage and just fight back. Definitely, the results will shock you.