कितने लोगों ने कितनी ही बार ये सोचा होगा,
सोते जागते इन सपनों को बुना होगा।
कितना अच्छा होता कि सब कुछ मन चाहा होता,जो मन होता वो कर जाता, जहाँ मन चाहे टहल आता।
काश!! सब मन चाहा होता…तो कितना अच्छा होता।
पर जिंदगी इंस्टेंट नूड्ल्स की तरह नहीं होती वो तो एक स्वादिष्ट डिश की तरह होती है,
जिसे पकने में काफ़ी समय, काफ़ी धैर्य, काफ़ी कौशल और काफ़ी कला लगती है।
जहाँ नमक, मिर्च और मसालों का समायोजन एकदम संतुलित होता है,
कोई भी स्वाद एक दूसरे को ओवर पॉवर नहीं कर रहा होता है।
वैसे ही ज़िंदगी होती है जहाँ बहुत से रिश्ते बनते और बिगड़ते रहते है,
आगे बढ़ने और ऊँचा बनने की लड़ाई में एक दूसरे से कितना झगड़ते रहते है।
खुद को ऊँचा उठाने की कोशिश करे, दूसरों को गिराने की नहीं,
सब कुछ मनचाहा मिल जाता तो जिंदगी का ये स्वाद रह जाता, कहिए सही कह रही हूँ या नहीं।
जो मनचाहा मिलता है उसका स्वागत करे, उसका आंनद ले।
और जो नहीं मिला है उसके बारे में सोचकर खुले रास्तों को बंद ना करे।
वीडियो देखने के लिए यहाँ क्लिक करे👇
हँसती और मुस्कुराती, मैं आशा हूँ।
निराशा को दूर भगाती और सबकी हिम्मत बढ़ाती, मैं आशा हूँ।
खड़ी हूँ यही चौखट पर तुम्हारी,
बस बंद दरवाज़े खोलने की देर है।
सोच रहे हो क्या तुम, किस उधेड़बुन में हो?
दोस्त तो बनो मेरे एक बार, किस आशंका में हो?
गर एक बार थामा मेरा दामन,
तो मैं जीवन भर साथ नहीं छोडूँगी।
चलूंगी संग संग तेरे, सपनों को उड़ान दूँगी।
गर गिर रहा होगा तो संभाल लूंगी।
और फिर से उठने का हौंसला दूँगी।
हँसती और मुस्कुराती, मैं आशा हूँ।
निराशा को दूर भगाती और सबकी हिम्मत बढ़ाती, मैं आशा हूँ।
तो क्या हुआ, लक्ष्य बहुत दूर है?
तो क्या हुआ कि लगातार की हुई कोशिशें सफल नहीं हो रही है।
ये क्या कम काबिले तारीफ़ है कि तुमने हिम्मत नहीं हारी है
और तुम बिना रुके, लगे हुए हो अपनी कोशिशों को सफल बनाने में।
खुदपर ये विश्वास कि मैं कर जाऊँगा,अपनी हार को भी जीत में बदल पाऊँगा।
देता है एक विश्वास और एक भरोसा आगे बढ़ने का,
हार ना मानकर लगे रहने का।
यही जज्बा, यही विश्वास एक दिन तेरे काम आएगा और देखते ही देखते तू अपने लक्ष्य को पा जाएगा।
#BlogchatterA2Z #A2Zchallenge #Day17 #Week3 #AprilA2Z
Quitting will just drag you, one step farther from your goal so please don’t quit. #deepikawrites
Do not Quit, You also have that spark.
Just focus on the ray to come out from the dark.
You are not a loser, You have that winning spirit.
You are the child of the Holy God. Don’t worry, you will get rid.
Appreciate yourself, Just pat on your back.
This is the most important trait which we often lack.
You will feel good, You will feel confident.
Every small achievement If you take it as a compliment.
This will boost your confidence & You will forget about quitting.
You will enjoy the ride, Just weave new dreams as we do in knitting.
You are hardworking, You are a warrior.
Self believe & positive attitude, these are the saviour.
Believe me, try once, you will proud of you.
Sooner or later, those who were not believing, will stand next to you.
This is all for #Day17. Now I am taking my leave, I hope you will like today’s poem. I will catch you tomorrow with next letter. Till then be happy and spread happiness.
#Day16 “Pure Perfection is like a dream”
#Day15 “Optimism Is A Hope”
#Day14 “A New Beginning”
#Day13 “Mother’s Love”
#Day12 “Love Is Eternal”
#Day11 “Keep It Up, You are trying”
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I wanted to make it earlier but I don’t know for what reason I didn’t register that but this time I don’t want to lose this special opportunity to thank them who are supporting me from day 1 to till now.
Thanks a lot guys for supporting me and inspiring me always to try more harder.
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Passionate and Enthusiastic mom of two kids, Homemaker, Now blogger also on My Aspiring hope.
Eager to learn new things. Believe in simple living & high thinking.
Today I am sharing some of my favourites lines written by me.
Don’t look for the fixed patterns, Create Your Own, Maybe you find the best one ever.#deepikawrites
I know, I am not good enough in languages. Words are only the medium. My heart speaks. #deepikawrites
Don’t lose hope ever. Believe in yourself. Definitely, you will get the success to find your own path. #deepikawrites
Some are talented by birth, Some work hard to make their hobby as their talent. Some discover that unique quality first which embedded in them and try to be a master of that. You say, In which category do you find yourself?#deepikawrites
This month is full of challenges for me, I was not well and after two or three days of my recovery, my son got ill. Daughter’s school exam then PTM, my pending work schedule, hubby’s office audit work, back to back things were lined up, mother in law’s eye check up & health issues then my daughter fell sick, no chance to sit quietly and think and write my views.
Anyways, This is the life, full of adventures and challenges at the same time. You say, what is going on in your life?
Today I want to share which I experienced in the past couple of days, the power of patience.
Patience is the ability to accept things which are not performing according to you.
Think of the difference between the patient and calm person and the impatient person.
Patient person calmly thinks all over the issues then decide what is the best to do in the particular situation, on the other hand, an impatient person simply reacts first without thinking on what the situation is demanding. Sometimes, he has to pay for this also.
Each and everything takes their own time to flourish. Hurry and rush sometimes spoil the things. Let the things allow to take their own time to grow.
How patience plays their role in our life-
1. Anything you start, like a carrier or a business or anything new, have patience. You can’t get the best results in one night, this is not a magic that you wish for something and that appears. You have to work hard with dedication in the right direction and wait for the results, how things are going?
2. Patience in Relationships-As I said earlier, everything takes its own time to grow and flourish, the same thing applies here also, firstly you have to understand the person then try to make your bond stronger, then also things are not working then go for other options. Give up in the starting without understanding the things is not a wise decision.
3. Patience’s role in the family-Every family is beautiful and has some scope the enhance the beauty of this with small efforts. Listen to every family members views and wishes patiently and then make a consensus is the sign of a healthy family. Only one is making decisions and others are only following is not good for the long run.
What is your take on this? Please share your views in the comment section.
I will catch you all in the next one, till then take care, be happy and the most important be healthy.
Hello all !!! How are you doing?
I have an announcement for all of you. I have some commitments for this month as well as the next so may be possible I wouldn’t be able to publish the posts regularly.
Thanks a lot for all your support and hoping for the same as earlier!
I will try my level best to set a new schedule according to the new responsibilities. I am sure, I will come back with some of more daily life challanging and motivating topics. Till then take care. Be productive.
Are you in the confusion?
Are you not satisfied with the progress of your life?
Do you want to change the current scenario of your life?
If the answer to all the three questions is “yes” then this blog is dedicated to all of you.
Welcome, all to my blog!!
Friends!!! Life is not as simple as we considered in our imaginations, there are some twists and turns which we have to accept and make our own path.
Everybody has different thoughts, aspirations and goals and their specific ways to achieve them. It is up to them how they define their lives.
Some are more ambitious so their priorities would be different. Some give the most priority to their family.
If someone’s priority is his profession then he can’t sacrifice his goals, it is fact and on the other hand, for someone, his family and kids are the most priority and he always tries to find some ways to adjust his family responsibilities with his profession.
There are very few who maintain a good balance in both of them and in actual mean they are the true winners.
Some are not satisfied with their personal life. If they are satisfied with their personal life then not sure about their professional life.
Do you ever think why these questions bothered?
The answer is comparison and confusion.
Everybody wants to live other’s life as he is only watching only the best part of their’s lives rest he is not watching actually or he doesn’t want to see.
Let’s understand it.
Confusion is the deep-rooted cause of all of these problems because we are living our life simply without knowing from where I have to start, where I have to go? Now, what is my current situation? What would be my destination?
Those who are not clear about their thoughts and vision, can’t get success.
Problem is this, they don’t know what they actually want from their lives. They are not happy with their current position and maybe with the future one.
If they feel satisfied about their decision then there should be no space for any confusion.
How this space creates?
I tell you before the reason is a comparison.
Without any similar situations, we compare us to others, found ourselves smaller than others, depressed with the situation then surrender.
The fall starts from here only because every small line is competing with the big line and the big line is competing with his bigger one and a bigger one from the biggest one. There is no end to this comparison. Let me explain with an example.
For example, If one chooses a specific work for him, he must be calculated some points regarding this, Agree? then what is the need for the comparison?
From where this comparison comes from his side or other’s side.
If we can’t control the other’s judgement so at least be clear about yourselves.
Life is not a race all the time.
Lots of options are open to you. Firstly make a choice according to your suitability then find the chance for yourself if you couldn’t find then ready to make your own and in the last, if you are not satisfied with that then change it.
This will happen only if you are clear about the steps you are following.
One more thing we should learn, appreciate ourselves for our efforts.
Don’t wait for others if they do so, they are welcomed and if they don’t, they are also welcomed.
Welcome your decisions and think again and again what were the reasons to choose this one, I am sure you will definitely get the answer.
Don’t lose hope. Everything will be fine. Be positive and make efforts. Take care!
Good morning everyone!
Here, In India, I have just finished my morning routine. Suddenly clicked in my mind, how daily we deal with the almost same routine so it is important to make it more effective with some extra efforts.
If we succeed to start our morning routine in a disciplined and the planned way, then the rest of the day will sort automatically.
Observe when your morning starts in an almost perfect way, what is the impression for the whole day & when your routine little bit deviated from the planned one, how difficult to manage and deal with the rest of the chores.
Do you agree with me?
Mornings are the most crucial as well as the most productive time of the day. It is up to you, what start do you want to give your mornings messy or peaceful?
See, If you want everything organised and hassle-free, you have to put some extra efforts in it, If you are prepared for this then only you can achieve the planned one otherwise all the planning will be in vain because of the inappropriate execution.
Some of the points will help to organise your morning routine–
1. First of all, start with yourself-
In most of the cases, the lady of the house takes charge of this so she should start with herself. If she will put some extra efforts and motivate herself to help the other family members to complete their tasks, most of the problem will solve automatically.
Here I suggest she should wake up a little earlier so at least she finishes her routine & further she doesn’t have to face any disturbance while doing her work.
I think“Lady of the house”is the backbone of the family so here other members should also give their support to make the house’s environment happier.
2. Start your routine the night before-
This helps a lot to make the morning organised. If you have a clear picture of the morning chores & you preplanned them then only, in the morning, you can execute otherwise all the planning & the execution in the morning simultaneously sounds very difficult at least for me.
3. Preplanning is the must–
If you have small kids like me then most of the responsibilities of kids too on your shoulders because the husband is also busy in completing his routine so you can’t expect any help from his side, even more, you have to help him in their chores too.
That’s why preplanning is a must. Like Plan the menu for the morning and do some preparations in the advance at night, arrange the kid’s bag according to the time table,husband office’s bag according to his requirement, any other project related work, clean the kitchen for the next morning attack, Iron the uniform & keep at their designated place etc. etc.No work should be pending for morning.
If we do all these things properly then I am sure the morning will be the best time of the day where we can give the most productivity of the day.
Now with the following words, I end my post.
Be happy & Be productive.
Share your views and suggest your ideas to make the morning hassle-free. Take care. I will meet you in the next one.