Worst feeling:The feeling of sickness

Hello all!!

How are you all doing? Hoping good for you all but I am not well from past three days, suffering from food poisoning, the worst feeling ever.

From the last three days, my routine was disturbed drastically. I want to come back the routine but my body is not supporting now.

I visited the doctor too and now on medication. Everybody is understanding my situation but my little one(my 2 years old son)is a little bit curious.

When I visited the doctor, he was with me, I observed when Dr examined me, he was little protective and concerned about me.

I love my kids and family very much and they are too. I am sure with their support, I will recover soon but it will take some time.

For now, this is the small update from my side. Definitely, I will come back with a new one very soon. Till then take care of your health.

If health is fine, everything will be fine.

Merry Christmas!!: My Christmas Story

Hello all…..Merry Christmas!!!! May this Christmas brings an abundance of joy & happiness, health, wealth and success and peace in everyone’s life.

As this festival of “giving”, we can also try to give some wonderful moments to others.

I am not a Christian then how I connect with Christmas. Today I will share my feeling for Christmas and how I relate to this festival.

My birthday is on 24 December and as you all know Christmas comes on 25 December. You will ask then what is the connection between these two dates. I will tell you, I was in a Catholic school so Christmas Celebration was the most memorable part of my school memories.

Our school celebrated Christmas one day before on 24 December and that was my birth date. When I was a kid, this thing fascinated me a lot that my birthday and Jesus Christ’s birthday comes on the same day.

Later I came to know that it was a celebration in school a day before but then only I feel very special on that day because I celebrated my birthday in school and the whole school was in a festive mood.

Today also I remember how we all planned for Christmas celebrations with the help of the teachers. All the memories of Christmas remain fresh in my mind like decorating Christmas tree, attending Church, waiting for the “Santa Claus” to arrive and the most loved part, the recreation of the moment how Jesus Christ born.

Through my school, I got to know about the festival in detail and really I loved every part of it.

I can’t forget that “Christmas Carols” which gave me a totally emotional feeling about the festival. I loved that songs, some of them today also I recite and recall that feeling.

The icing on the cake of the Christmas Celebration besides those songs, distributions of the cakes and Chocolates because I love chocolates and cakes very much.

Here I would like to mention something about my school that those were the best moments of my life which I lived in my school. I learnt a lot of things there but the moral values I learnt from there that helped me a lot to make me a person as I am today.

I feel very proud that I was the part of that school, that school gave me a lot and that’s why I feel a special connection from my school.No matters I couldn’t recreate that moment again but that bond with my school secured a very special place in my heart.

I met some of the best people in my life there and that was my teachers. I share a special bond with my all the teachers as I share with my mother and that was the speciality of my school how they create a bond with the students.

Oh! I totally lost in my school memories. Now I am missing my school. As I am an emotional person it suits me. By the way apart from this, I would like to congratulate “Merry Christmas” again in advance to all of you. I know it’s early to say but I couldn’t wait for this and expressed my feelings.

Enjoy these Christmas decorating days and festive mood of celebration. Take care. I will catch you later in my next one. Be festive!

Responsibilities and Priorities: How to make a balance?

Hello friends…..!!!!

I am back with a new post, I know it has been a very long time, sorry for that but lots of new things were taking place in my life so busy with dealing all of those. Now talk about today’s topic.

Today’s topic is responsibilities & priorities: how to make a balance?

This is true, life will give us challenges & we have to decide our priorities.

If we get success to prioritize our responsibilities according to the current scenario, nothing can be better than this.

We always talk about the responsibilities but sometimes forget to prioritize & here I think we do a mistake, not to understand what current scenario demands.

This is absolutely true that we have to change our priorities according to the need & the situation.

Everybody’s life is slightly or totally different from others because their goals, their desires, their expectations, their experiences, their situations are totally different from others and this is the real beauty of the life.

Everybody is dealing with different types of situations but the goal is ultimate, all want good health, wealth, peace, happiness & satisfaction from their lives.

Now the question is if we all know the real fact about life then from where the problems start and create a mess in certain areas of our lives.

Here we discuss a few points about how can we enhance productivity & change the end results which cause kiosk.

Here I will share only my point of view towards my life and it will be totally unfair to judge other’s life because they are facing totally different situations.

Firstly I talk about the responsibilities, here In India either we live in a nuclear family or joint family.

If we live in the joint family then the responsibilities divide & distribute according to the family member’s availability & capacity.

That is a totally different issue “Are they get success to do justice with their duties or not”?

Joke apart!!!!!!

Let’s continue…

If we are in a nuclear family, then the scenario will be totally different. In that situation, one should really understand the real requirement or need of the moment.

Here, I will talk about only nuclear families with small kids who are totally dependent on their parents to fulfil all their requirements.

As we all know at a certain time only parents are the one who takes the responsibilities of all the household chores & the earning source.

Here either husband or wife has to give their maximum time to earn the bread for the family & the left one need to understand his or her responsibilities towards the family.

Here they can’t help themselves because options are so limited that’s why one should talk to another member of the family who is taking responsibility for fulfilling the rest of the things.

Some points are dedicated to whom who live in a nuclear family–

(a) PUMPING & BOOSTING YOURSELF:

Steal some good quality time for yourself that will refresh you and will give you the strength to deal with all the challenging & awkward situations. If you are happy then only you can try to keep other’s happy.

(b)PROPER COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR PARTNER ACCORDING TO YOUR ROLE:

There is no chance for any confusion regarding your duties & responsibilities which you are going to serve for your family volunteered.

Because miscommunication & confusion only make kiosk so sit with your partner and discuss all the points in detail & then make a final decision of about your role.

As I said earlier options are so limited that’s why this is expected from one person that he or she should take a lead for maximum roles when the kids need them the most.

The decision is totally dependent on the specific situation if one is earning for the family so for sure it is obvious that the second one automatically will serve the other chores.

Remember all responsibilities are equally important & you both are the sharing the same platform. Ego shouldn’t come in this.

(c)KIDS SHOULD BE THE FIRST PRIORITY:

As they are not in the condition to take care of themselves so that is our responsibility to give them love, support & the most important to give lots of time to them

Because this is the time when the kids are making their base, learning new things so one should always be there to listen to their confusions, their thoughts and talks. This will really help them to make their personality.

I know this is not an easy task to take a step back from your ambitions but here you have to choose in between the family or career, one thing will affect for sure so mentally prepare for that.

Then what is the solution?

Here we can do one thing, set our routine according to them. Try to avoid some other things just like rooms are messy and kids want to play with you, give your time to the kids first, we can clean it after some time here you need to decide your priorities first.

(d)LOVE YOUR WORK WHATEVER YOU DO, DON’T JUDGE YOURSELF ALL THE TIME, EXPECT LESS:

Moments will come when you will feel low, demotivated, helpless & lonely but don’t let overpower these things on you, this phase will also pass, nothing is permanent in this world.

Be optimistic, try to find some positivity in each unfavourable condition.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/15/dont-loose-the-hope/

Help and stand for yourself, Love yourself and your family they will definitely love you back.

From this note, I am ending my blog. I hope this blog will help you to understand your situation better. I will catch you all in my next one. Take care.

Be happy & spread happiness.