Uncertainty is the biggest challenge!!

Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?

In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.

On the other hand, some others live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.

I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing.

Why is it happen?

Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.

They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings. That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.

If you observe minutely then you get to know how earlier they set his mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that.

This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions. If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.

If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get reason is you only. You are the one who can change the things for you.

Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.

Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision. Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.

Uncertainty is the biggest challenge!!

Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?

In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.

On the other hand, some people live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.

I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing. Why is it happen?

Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.

They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings.

That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.

If you observe minutely then you get to know, how they set their mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that. This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions.

If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.

If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get, try to find out the reason. You are the one who can change the things for yourself.

Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.

Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision.

Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.

Hard work With Brain

Some people believe in destiny & some other belief to make their destiny by their own with their hard work & focused dedication but why sometimes they don’t get the expected results after doing the hard work.

I agree, there is no substitute for hard work & dedication but we can improve the chances of the success with smart work(here I mean hard work with a brain).

How smartly we can manage all the Choices and make a plan is more important. Planning & Prioritization of the work can increase the possibilities of results that we are expecting.

There is a possibility, we have to face failure after doing hard work too but that is not mean that we should lose the focus on that particular work and should stop doing that.

In that condition we have to find out where the things are going wrong, find the reasons and correct it and implement with the same passion, that is called the smart work.

Planning, Prioritization, check the loopholes & then Implementation will be the key to any successful task .

Learning, making mistakes, working on those mistakes, restructure it and implement with new twists all are the basics points of the smart work.

This is my way of thinking on smart work, others can think it in some other way & it might work for them too.

So in my opinion, smart work pays more than hard work. Without knowing all the aspects of the work and don’t keep a backup plan if the things don’t go according to the planning are not as fruitful as we expecting.

Accept the mistake immediately & start the work on plan ‘B’ without wasting a single minute will you make the stand in the line of achievers.

Satisfaction

Hello friends!! How are you all?

Hoping all of you doing great.

Today let’s talk about the thing which every single person wants from their lives.

Guess…..What’s that?

Satisfaction

The sound of the word, itself gives a soothing feeling but in actual, do we have that?

Do we feel like satisfied?

I don’t think so. What do you think?

Today we just try to find out some reasons and their solutions why is it happen?

Why we are not satisfied with our lives?

Every person has its own definition and ambitions towards life and this is also a fact that each and every person slightly or totally different from others…

I am sure we all can agree with this fact…

Yes, we agree but don’t accept. This is the major cause to be unsatisfied all the time.

Some are the following reasons according to me for dissatisfaction-

Reasons-

1. We compare our lives with others

We all know that every person, their personalities, their expectations, their choices, their efforts, their approach and especially their “Karmas” are different from others.

Yes, I definitely do believe in “Karmas”.

“Whatever we do, we get in the same proportion as a result”.

Then why we want to be a part of this race of comparison unnecessarily.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/12/12/karmawhat-do-you-think-about/

2. Don’t know about our unique expertise-

We have to observe and improve our plus and minus points first and try to find “Real me“.

Find out that extra unique quality and work on it rather comparing with others.

We lose most of our valuable time while comparing us to others.

There is no need to do this because only we know ourselves in the best way.

We know very well what are our qualities and where we are lacking.

3. We lose hope

Friends!! one thing is true Nothing can achieve easily without hard work dedication and patience.

No substitute of hard work“.

We have to face a lot of challenges and difficulties while chasing our dream and passion but never lose hope.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/15/dont-loose-the-hope/

Believe me, friends!! at last, we will get it beyond our expectation.

4.Fear of Failure

Most of the time we make our mind like this that we can’t do this. This will take some extra efforts that so I should drop the idea.

These type of negative thoughts come in our mind and we lose our patience at the very initial level. This is not the right way.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/23/failurean-experience/

Our job is to give our two hundred per cent, the rest is not in our hands so don’t feel demotivated if the results are not your favourite.

We have to choose what our inner voice is saying, follow your heart at that time because sometimes mind only gives you lots of confusions.

Don’t over think and don’t expect so much each and every time. Things will go to its place definitely. Believe in this psychology and never stop working on it.

I think these are the main reasons for dissatisfaction.

Now talk about what we can do. If we can improve all the given reasons then we will get solutions automatically.

Solutions-

1. Be honest with yourself

If we are honest to ourselves then we know all our plus points and limitations then we will be more satisfied with choosing the work in which we are interested and obviously, our results will automatically better because we actually want to do that. That’s why it is important to follow our dreams.

2. Never compare an individual with other

This is the biggest mistake we do.

As I discuss earlier every single person has their own lifestyle. Never be judgemental. If anyone’s life is better than you then try to see their hard work and approach towards life.

Be a human being with a big heart.

3. Be motivated

Try to work on your hobbies and give some “Me time”. Whatever gives you inner peace and happiness just do it.

Try to think positive in every negative situation, something will come positive in the negative too so try to be positive because positivity changes the life completely, trust me it really works.

I think I include most of the points. If you want to add something from your side, let me know. So friends keep doing good work and always be happy. Take care.