Success: What is your definition?

!!!Success is not about only winning or losing!!!

Success: What is your definition?

In simple words, to achieve the goal which you planned for yourself which makes you feel happy and satisfief is called Success.

We can say it like this also, to accept the failure and come out from it gracefully and again make the mind to work and perform that leftover task, is the real form of success.

Everybody is chasing success desperately and they want this in their life anyhow but what are their criteria to measure success. Is this money, power, position, inner satisfaction or something else?

Everybody might be a different definition of their success.

I personally believe the growth of an individual from starting to till the end or at present where he is standing should be counted as his success.

Here growth of individual covers all the aspects of his life like social, personal, professional and spiritual as well. As the interest of an individual, he can choose his area of work where he wants to get success.

I believe, most of the people set their definition of success according to someone’s professional life only, how they are doing professionally.

Here I think slightly different, In my opinion, balance is very important in every aspect of life otherwise you will get success for a temporary period of time. You can’t pursue in the long run.

Think and tell who is more successful according to you. One who is doing excellent in his profession and the rest of the areas are terribly suffered or one who is good enough in his profession and also makes a good balance in other aspects of his life?

Who will be your choice?

According to me, In the end, the thing matter for me is how many other people are suffering from my decision in this race of success?

You want to win the race alone or want to give your shoulder as help to others. The choice is yours.

One more phenomenon is very common that one who is earning for the family is very successful and on the other hand who is doing 24 hours job without getting any penny is a big zero.

Do you agree?

I am not. Here we need to understand that the person contributes at home, knows his or her responsibilities very well and he or she wants a good balance in life that’s why he or she willingly chooses this for himself or herself. Please don’t give any tags to anyone regarding this.

Everybody is playing its individual role and getting his growth gradually so everybody should respect for this.

Success is not all about what other people are thinking about you. How you feel about your individual growth according to your capacities and capabilities is also counted as your success.

Everybody lives his life but what matters is that how he is living in actually?

Nobody should force to live his life in a certain way. As a human being one should at least get the right how he wants to live his life, it should be only his choice.

If somebody is happy with his messy things, let it be. Don’t judge on the basis of his weakness. It’s ok not to be successful according to other’s balance sheet. If you tried and do not ready to give up on your situations and satisfied with all your efforts and the results, you are also a winner in your own space.

Celebrate this and discover more chances for you. Continue with the process of growth you will surely get your goal.

Feel like a winner, think like a winner, you will get your power booster automatically, don’t put you in any pressure all the time.

Make a choice :What do you want from your life?

Are you in the confusion?

Are you not satisfied with the progress of your life?

Do you want to change the current scenario of your life?

If the answer to all the three questions is “yes” then this blog is dedicated to all of you.

Welcome, all to my blog!!

Friends!!! Life is not as simple as we considered in our imaginations, there are some twists and turns which we have to accept and make our own path.

Everybody has different thoughts, aspirations and goals and their specific ways to achieve them. It is up to them how they define their lives.

Some are more ambitious so their priorities would be different. Some give the most priority to their family.

If someone’s priority is his profession then he can’t sacrifice his goals, it is fact and on the other hand, for someone, his family and kids are the most priority and he always tries to find some ways to adjust his family responsibilities with his profession.

There are very few who maintain a good balance in both of them and in actual mean they are the true winners.

Some are not satisfied with their personal life. If they are satisfied with their personal life then not sure about their professional life.

Do you ever think why these questions bothered?

The answer is comparison and confusion.

Everybody wants to live other’s life as he is only watching only the best part of their’s lives rest he is not watching actually or he doesn’t want to see.

Let’s understand it.

Confusion is the deep-rooted cause of all of these problems because we are living our life simply without knowing from where I have to start, where I have to go? Now, what is my current situation? What would be my destination?

Those who are not clear about their thoughts and vision, can’t get success.

Problem is this, they don’t know what they actually want from their lives. They are not happy with their current position and maybe with the future one.

If they feel satisfied about their decision then there should be no space for any confusion.

How this space creates?

I tell you before the reason is a comparison.

Without any similar situations, we compare us to others, found ourselves smaller than others, depressed with the situation then surrender.

The fall starts from here only because every small line is competing with the big line and the big line is competing with his bigger one and a bigger one from the biggest one. There is no end to this comparison. Let me explain with an example.

For example, If one chooses a specific work for him, he must be calculated some points regarding this, Agree? then what is the need for the comparison?

From where this comparison comes from his side or other’s side.

If we can’t control the other’s judgement so at least be clear about yourselves.

Life is not a race all the time.

Lots of options are open to you. Firstly make a choice according to your suitability then find the chance for yourself if you couldn’t find then ready to make your own and in the last, if you are not satisfied with that then change it.

This will happen only if you are clear about the steps you are following.

One more thing we should learn, appreciate ourselves for our efforts.

Don’t wait for others if they do so, they are welcomed and if they don’t, they are also welcomed.

Welcome your decisions and think again and again what were the reasons to choose this one, I am sure you will definitely get the answer.

Don’t lose hope. Everything will be fine. Be positive and make efforts. Take care!

Uncertainty is the biggest challenge!!

Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?

In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.

On the other hand, some others live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.

I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing.

Why is it happen?

Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.

They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings. That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.

If you observe minutely then you get to know how earlier they set his mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that.

This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions. If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.

If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get reason is you only. You are the one who can change the things for you.

Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.

Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision. Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.

Uncertainty is the biggest challenge!!

Have you thought ever what makes us different from others? Why we own different positions or roles in our life? What makes someone so successful?

In my opinion, our approach and our actions towards life really make that difference. Everybody follow the different rules in their life. According to their nature & likings, they decide some goal for their lives.

On the other hand, some people live someone else’s dreams. They always live in confusion. They might not clear about their vision. They choose the path which is decided by others. This act of those pushes them one step back from their goal always.

I saw the people with the same resources and the same facilities, one trend on the top and the other still struggles for the same thing. Why is it happen?

Those who have a clear vision for their goals, no uncertainty in their mind, use their limited resources in the best way.

They choose to affect the people by their work rather be affected by the people in their surroundings.

That’s the reason one person leads and others follow their instructions.

If you observe minutely then you get to know, how they set their mind for their aim. They never think about the role, they only focus on their goal and through their determination, dedication and hard work, they achieve that. This is all possible because he has that certainty & clarity in his mind, words & actions.

If one get success to balance in those then nobody can stop them.

If you are loosing and not getting which you want to get, try to find out the reason. You are the one who can change the things for yourself.

Noone other can take a guarantee on your behalf. You have to tie your belt tight and work on the weaknesses and the faults which are stopping you.

Come out from all those things which are becoming the hindrance between you and your vision.

Decide the goal, find the ways to reach there. Regularly work on it, don’t worry about the results.

Failure::An Experience

Failure is the result when we don’t reach the goal which we either decide for ourselves or decided by someone else where we have to give results on the basis of the performance.

We should take failure as an experience. If we will never fail then we will never learn that chapter of the life.

How can failure be the game changer and help to trigger to choose the right direction::

1. First of all, we have to set our mind that nobody is perfect here. 100 Percent Perfection is totally an imagination.

2. When somebody starts a work, they start with the learning point of view & If they are learning they will do mistakes and that mistakes help them to make a strong base in that particular field and will help them further in some other way so don’t much bother about that failure which we get in the process of learning because efforts never go in vain.

3. I think this is the basic difference between the successful person and the struggler. Successful people don’t get so emotional on their defeat. They channelise the energy and efforts again in the right direction.

4. They never lose hope, try and try again and get the success in the end. Learn from the mistakes and ensure that those mistakes don’t repeat in future again.

5. If we are not getting success with the same formula then try to find a new point of view with some twist. We have to find out the new ideas and the new opportunities to establish that thought process and focus on the disciplined planning and right execution steps.

6.”Experience is the best teacher“, we have to understand the truth that we are taking the real experience through failure which will be the first step of success in future. There is no any example about that person who never went wrong and achieved all the goals.

7. Watch all the success stories and go through with them then you come to know, how many times they faced failure, criticism and rejections but never gave up and the most common things about them they came again with a solid plan and double energy and this is true if we are enough mentally strong then nobody can ever dare the change our determination.

8. Don’t bother about the people, they will talk, they will criticise, let them talk. Avoid all the negativity and never stop to work on that tiny steps which must be the biggest one in the future.

9.With the support of the family and true friends, we can achieve the difficult targets too and don’t worry if nobody is there with you, be strong enough to handle it with your own. Don’t step back because, in the end, one should fight his own battle without any support.

So with this note, I am ending here. Lots of best wishes to all of them who are busy changing their efforts to succeed.All the very best to all of you.