Sorry Papa!

It is true that we rarely express our love and emotional connect towards our fathers.

I generally talk about my beloved “Maa”, but no doubt, I am my Papa’s princess and he is my hero too.
I have expressed my feelings about him in one of my poem.

” Daddy’s Princess”

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2019/04/04/day-4-daddys-princess/

We often fail to express our gratitude towards our fathers but thanks to Vartika for giving me a reason to write about him.

I am feeling quite emotional while writing this post because I am sharing some of the moments of my life which I never expressed before.

I do remember being close to my father in my early childhood, most of my daily routine chores were taken care by my father till my adolescence because I have a younger brother too and my mum was looking after him.

But as time passed and I entered teenage I felt my connection with papa lacking that special warmth because of whatever reasons.

Maybe he was so strict in some specific situations and maybe my maa always had that extra soft corner towards me and my younger brother.

Now I understand that I was totally wrong. I was only concerned about my point of view and literally made no effort to understand what he believed.

But after marriage when I am observing my husband now in the role of my kid’s father, I can easily understand those emotions and concern of a father.

Sorry, Papa! I was wrong at that time. Sorry for all the mistakes which I ever made. Sorry for disconnecting and not listening to your thoughts. Sorry, Papa!
This is the small tribute from my side to all the fathers.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2019/06/16/happy-fathers-day/

Now I realise & feel that all the sacrifices which you made for us. Now I understand, how you managed everything even in the worst situations.

I saw your anger only but now Papa, I understand what you were facing at that time. How difficult it was to handle all the expenses being the only earning member.

But now I feel very proud that I am your daughter. I also try to not give up in tough situations as you set an example for me.

Love you papa and salute you for your every single effort. I know you are always concerned about my bright future even now so I promise you papa I will never let you down.

Love you, Papa!

Announcement !!!!

Hello all !!! How are you doing?

I have an announcement for all of you. I have some commitments for this month as well as the next so may be possible I wouldn’t be able to publish the posts regularly.

Thanks a lot for all your support and hoping for the same as earlier!

I will try my level best to set a new schedule according to the new responsibilities. I am sure, I will come back with some of more daily life challanging and motivating topics. Till then take care. Be productive.

Happy Sunday.

Make a choice :What do you want from your life?

Are you in the confusion?

Are you not satisfied with the progress of your life?

Do you want to change the current scenario of your life?

If the answer to all the three questions is “yes” then this blog is dedicated to all of you.

Welcome, all to my blog!!

Friends!!! Life is not as simple as we considered in our imaginations, there are some twists and turns which we have to accept and make our own path.

Everybody has different thoughts, aspirations and goals and their specific ways to achieve them. It is up to them how they define their lives.

Some are more ambitious so their priorities would be different. Some give the most priority to their family.

If someone’s priority is his profession then he can’t sacrifice his goals, it is fact and on the other hand, for someone, his family and kids are the most priority and he always tries to find some ways to adjust his family responsibilities with his profession.

There are very few who maintain a good balance in both of them and in actual mean they are the true winners.

Some are not satisfied with their personal life. If they are satisfied with their personal life then not sure about their professional life.

Do you ever think why these questions bothered?

The answer is comparison and confusion.

Everybody wants to live other’s life as he is only watching only the best part of their’s lives rest he is not watching actually or he doesn’t want to see.

Let’s understand it.

Confusion is the deep-rooted cause of all of these problems because we are living our life simply without knowing from where I have to start, where I have to go? Now, what is my current situation? What would be my destination?

Those who are not clear about their thoughts and vision, can’t get success.

Problem is this, they don’t know what they actually want from their lives. They are not happy with their current position and maybe with the future one.

If they feel satisfied about their decision then there should be no space for any confusion.

How this space creates?

I tell you before the reason is a comparison.

Without any similar situations, we compare us to others, found ourselves smaller than others, depressed with the situation then surrender.

The fall starts from here only because every small line is competing with the big line and the big line is competing with his bigger one and a bigger one from the biggest one. There is no end to this comparison. Let me explain with an example.

For example, If one chooses a specific work for him, he must be calculated some points regarding this, Agree? then what is the need for the comparison?

From where this comparison comes from his side or other’s side.

If we can’t control the other’s judgement so at least be clear about yourselves.

Life is not a race all the time.

Lots of options are open to you. Firstly make a choice according to your suitability then find the chance for yourself if you couldn’t find then ready to make your own and in the last, if you are not satisfied with that then change it.

This will happen only if you are clear about the steps you are following.

One more thing we should learn, appreciate ourselves for our efforts.

Don’t wait for others if they do so, they are welcomed and if they don’t, they are also welcomed.

Welcome your decisions and think again and again what were the reasons to choose this one, I am sure you will definitely get the answer.

Don’t lose hope. Everything will be fine. Be positive and make efforts. Take care!

Responsibilities and Priorities: How to make a balance?

Hello friends…..!!!!

I am back with a new post, I know it has been a very long time, sorry for that but lots of new things were taking place in my life so busy with dealing all of those. Now talk about today’s topic.

Today’s topic is responsibilities & priorities: how to make a balance?

This is true, life will give us challenges & we have to decide our priorities.

If we get success to prioritize our responsibilities according to the current scenario, nothing can be better than this.

We always talk about the responsibilities but sometimes forget to prioritize & here I think we do a mistake, not to understand what current scenario demands.

This is absolutely true that we have to change our priorities according to the need & the situation.

Everybody’s life is slightly or totally different from others because their goals, their desires, their expectations, their experiences, their situations are totally different from others and this is the real beauty of the life.

Everybody is dealing with different types of situations but the goal is ultimate, all want good health, wealth, peace, happiness & satisfaction from their lives.

Now the question is if we all know the real fact about life then from where the problems start and create a mess in certain areas of our lives.

Here we discuss a few points about how can we enhance productivity & change the end results which cause kiosk.

Here I will share only my point of view towards my life and it will be totally unfair to judge other’s life because they are facing totally different situations.

Firstly I talk about the responsibilities, here In India either we live in a nuclear family or joint family.

If we live in the joint family then the responsibilities divide & distribute according to the family member’s availability & capacity.

That is a totally different issue “Are they get success to do justice with their duties or not”?

Joke apart!!!!!!

Let’s continue…

If we are in a nuclear family, then the scenario will be totally different. In that situation, one should really understand the real requirement or need of the moment.

Here, I will talk about only nuclear families with small kids who are totally dependent on their parents to fulfil all their requirements.

As we all know at a certain time only parents are the one who takes the responsibilities of all the household chores & the earning source.

Here either husband or wife has to give their maximum time to earn the bread for the family & the left one need to understand his or her responsibilities towards the family.

Here they can’t help themselves because options are so limited that’s why one should talk to another member of the family who is taking responsibility for fulfilling the rest of the things.

Some points are dedicated to whom who live in a nuclear family–

(a) PUMPING & BOOSTING YOURSELF:

Steal some good quality time for yourself that will refresh you and will give you the strength to deal with all the challenging & awkward situations. If you are happy then only you can try to keep other’s happy.

(b)PROPER COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR PARTNER ACCORDING TO YOUR ROLE:

There is no chance for any confusion regarding your duties & responsibilities which you are going to serve for your family volunteered.

Because miscommunication & confusion only make kiosk so sit with your partner and discuss all the points in detail & then make a final decision of about your role.

As I said earlier options are so limited that’s why this is expected from one person that he or she should take a lead for maximum roles when the kids need them the most.

The decision is totally dependent on the specific situation if one is earning for the family so for sure it is obvious that the second one automatically will serve the other chores.

Remember all responsibilities are equally important & you both are the sharing the same platform. Ego shouldn’t come in this.

(c)KIDS SHOULD BE THE FIRST PRIORITY:

As they are not in the condition to take care of themselves so that is our responsibility to give them love, support & the most important to give lots of time to them

Because this is the time when the kids are making their base, learning new things so one should always be there to listen to their confusions, their thoughts and talks. This will really help them to make their personality.

I know this is not an easy task to take a step back from your ambitions but here you have to choose in between the family or career, one thing will affect for sure so mentally prepare for that.

Then what is the solution?

Here we can do one thing, set our routine according to them. Try to avoid some other things just like rooms are messy and kids want to play with you, give your time to the kids first, we can clean it after some time here you need to decide your priorities first.

(d)LOVE YOUR WORK WHATEVER YOU DO, DON’T JUDGE YOURSELF ALL THE TIME, EXPECT LESS:

Moments will come when you will feel low, demotivated, helpless & lonely but don’t let overpower these things on you, this phase will also pass, nothing is permanent in this world.

Be optimistic, try to find some positivity in each unfavourable condition.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/15/dont-loose-the-hope/

Help and stand for yourself, Love yourself and your family they will definitely love you back.

From this note, I am ending my blog. I hope this blog will help you to understand your situation better. I will catch you all in my next one. Take care.

Be happy & spread happiness.

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY “Maa”

Hello friends

Today’s article is dedicated to all mothers…Happy mother’s day to all the lovely mothers.

“Maa” is the world where all of us life’s revolve. She is the source of unconditional love, care and devotion. We can never forget her sacrifices. She is the first and greatest teacher in the world.

As a daughter, I want to share my feelings towards my “maa”. Now I am also a mother of two kids so can easily understand the journey of motherhood.

It is such a roller coaster ride. I am saying this roller coaster because many moments come where it is very difficult to decide, choose and priorities our responsibilities and do the justice with everyone, but I guess only a mother can do it perfectly, God gave this special power only to mothers.

I remember “maa”, how you manage all the things very patiently and the best part is that you don’t have any doubts, any confusions, any burden in your mind ever. All you do with great ease like a superwoman.

Today thinking about that all those moments I am feeling so amazed how do you manage all those things effortlessly and I am struggling with those stuff till the date.

At that time, I literally unable to understand all those things. But now when I am going through the same, I can better understand your state of mind.

Now I can understand “maa”, how many up and downs you have to face in this journey, despite that, you never complain about anything…

“Salute to your patience, dedication and hard work”.

You supported me in each and every step of my life and whenever I went wrong you were always there to correct me. You are such an inspiration for me “maa”.

I never express to you how much I love you but now I want to say that I love you the most. I love you so much from the bottom of my heart.

I remember how much I love to sleep on your lap and I can’t explain that feeling in words…It was just out of the world… “Feeling of extreme peace and Satisfaction”. And now after marriage all those things, I really miss “maa”…

Now I understood all those gestures which annoyed me a lot at that time and I thought often why was maa doing this to me?? And I literally argued with you but now I can relate with all those situations and emotions, and the funniest part is that now I am doing the same things.

Now I understood the reasons for all that worries and the reason is very simple that you are so protective and concerned for us “maa”.Now I can understand all these things.

Literally Mom’s feeling only a mom can understand.

Here I want to add one thing, sometimes we don’t give that respect and gratitude to her which she deserves the most whatever the reason behind this but it happens.

As time is passing I am respecting you more and more as a person, as a human being and especially as my “maa”…..

So today I want to confess all my mistakes and say sorry to you “maa”.I know you have already forgotten all my mistakes.

And In the last, I only want to say“Salute to you my Maa”(Heads off to you Maa)

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