I am back with a new post, I know it has been a very long time, sorry for that but lots of new things were taking place in my life so busy with dealing all of those. Now talk about today’s topic.
Today’s topic is responsibilities & priorities: how to make a balance?
This is true, life will give us challenges & we have to decide our priorities.
If we get success to prioritize our responsibilities according to the current scenario, nothing can be better than this.
We always talk about the responsibilities but sometimes forget to prioritize & here I think we do a mistake, not to understand what current scenario demands.
This is absolutely true that we have to change our priorities according to the need & the situation.
Everybody’s life is slightly or totally different from others because their goals, their desires, their expectations, their experiences, their situations are totally different from others and this is the real beauty of the life.
Everybody is dealing with different types of situations but the goal is ultimate, all want good health, wealth, peace, happiness & satisfaction from their lives.
Now the question is if we all know the real fact about life then from where the problems start and create a mess in certain areas of our lives.
Here we discuss a few points about how can we enhance productivity & change the end results which cause kiosk.
Here I will share only my point of view towards my life and it will be totally unfair to judge other’s life because they are facing totally different situations.
Firstly I talk about the responsibilities, here In India either we live in a nuclear family or joint family.
If we live in the joint family then the responsibilities divide & distribute according to the family member’s availability & capacity.
That is a totally different issue “Are they get success to do justice with their duties or not”?
If we are in a nuclear family, then the scenario will be totally different. In that situation, one should really understand the real requirement or need of the moment.
Here, I will talk about only nuclear families with small kids who are totally dependent on their parents to fulfil all their requirements.
As we all know at a certain time only parents are the one who takes the responsibilities of all the household chores & the earning source.
Here either husband or wife has to give their maximum time to earn the bread for the family & the left one need to understand his or her responsibilities towards the family.
Here they can’t help themselves because options are so limited that’s why one should talk to another member of the family who is taking responsibility for fulfilling the rest of the things.
Some points are dedicated to whom who live in a nuclear family–
(a) PUMPING & BOOSTING YOURSELF:
Steal some good quality time for yourself that will refresh you and will give you the strength to deal with all the challenging & awkward situations. If you are happy then only you can try to keep other’s happy.
(b)PROPER COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR PARTNER ACCORDING TO YOUR ROLE:
There is no chance for any confusion regarding your duties & responsibilities which you are going to serve for your family volunteered.
Because miscommunication & confusion only make kiosk so sit with your partner and discuss all the points in detail & then make a final decision of about your role.
As I said earlier options are so limited that’s why this is expected from one person that he or she should take a lead for maximum roles when the kids need them the most.
The decision is totally dependent on the specific situation if one is earning for the family so for sure it is obvious that the second one automatically will serve the other chores.
Remember all responsibilities are equally important & you both are the sharing the same platform. Ego shouldn’t come in this.
(c)KIDS SHOULD BE THE FIRST PRIORITY:
As they are not in the condition to take care of themselves so that is our responsibility to give them love, support & the most important to give lots of time to them
Because this is the time when the kids are making their base, learning new things so one should always be there to listen to their confusions, their thoughts and talks. This will really help them to make their personality.
I know this is not an easy task to take a step back from your ambitions but here you have to choose in between the family or career, one thing will affect for sure so mentally prepare for that.
Then what is the solution?
Here we can do one thing, set our routine according to them. Try to avoid some other things just like rooms are messy and kids want to play with you, give your time to the kids first, we can clean it after some time here you need to decide your priorities first.
(d)LOVE YOUR WORK WHATEVER YOU DO, DON’T JUDGE YOURSELF ALL THE TIME, EXPECT LESS:
Moments will come when you will feel low, demotivated, helpless & lonely but don’t let overpower these things on you, this phase will also pass, nothing is permanent in this world.
Be optimistic, try to find some positivity in each unfavourable condition.
Help and stand for yourself, Love yourself and your family they will definitely love you back.
From this note, I am ending my blog. I hope this blog will help you to understand your situation better. I will catch you all in my next one. Take care.
Be happy & spread happiness.