Hello friends!! How are you all?
Hoping all of you doing great.
Today let’s talk about the thing which every single person wants from their lives.
The sound of the word, itself gives a soothing feeling but in actual, do we have that?
Do we feel like satisfied?
I don’t think so. What do you think?
Today we just try to find out some reasons and their solutions why is it happen?
Why we are not satisfied with our lives?
Every person has its own definition and ambitions towards life and this is also a fact that each and every person slightly or totally different from others…
I am sure we all can agree with this fact…
Yes, we agree but don’t accept. This is the major cause to be unsatisfied all the time.
Some are the following reasons according to me for dissatisfaction-
1. We compare our lives with others–
We all know that every person, their personalities, their expectations, their choices, their efforts, their approach and especially their “Karmas” are different from others.
Yes, I definitely do believe in “Karmas”.
“Whatever we do, we get in the same proportion as a result”.
Then why we want to be a part of this race of comparison unnecessarily.
2. Don’t know about our unique expertise-
We have to observe and improve our plus and minus points first and try to find “Real me“.
Find out that extra unique quality and work on it rather comparing with others.
We lose most of our valuable time while comparing us to others.
There is no need to do this because only we know ourselves in the best way.
We know very well what are our qualities and where we are lacking.
3. We lose hope–
Friends!! one thing is true Nothing can achieve easily without hard work dedication and patience.
“No substitute of hard work“.
We have to face a lot of challenges and difficulties while chasing our dream and passion but never lose hope.
Believe me, friends!! at last, we will get it beyond our expectation.
4.Fear of Failure–
Most of the time we make our mind like this that we can’t do this. This will take some extra efforts that so I should drop the idea.
These type of negative thoughts come in our mind and we lose our patience at the very initial level. This is not the right way.
Our job is to give our two hundred per cent, the rest is not in our hands so don’t feel demotivated if the results are not your favourite.
We have to choose what our inner voice is saying, follow your heart at that time because sometimes mind only gives you lots of confusions.
Don’t over think and don’t expect so much each and every time. Things will go to its place definitely. Believe in this psychology and never stop working on it.
I think these are the main reasons for dissatisfaction.
Now talk about what we can do. If we can improve all the given reasons then we will get solutions automatically.
1. Be honest with yourself–
If we are honest to ourselves then we know all our plus points and limitations then we will be more satisfied with choosing the work in which we are interested and obviously, our results will automatically better because we actually want to do that. That’s why it is important to follow our dreams.
2. Never compare an individual with other–
This is the biggest mistake we do.
As I discuss earlier every single person has their own lifestyle. Never be judgemental. If anyone’s life is better than you then try to see their hard work and approach towards life.
Be a human being with a big heart.
3. Be motivated–
Try to work on your hobbies and give some “Me time”. Whatever gives you inner peace and happiness just do it.
Try to think positive in every negative situation, something will come positive in the negative too so try to be positive because positivity changes the life completely, trust me it really works.
I think I include most of the points. If you want to add something from your side, let me know. So friends keep doing good work and always be happy. Take care.