Confusion!!! How to balance between your work and the kid’s foundation simultaneously?

Hello all !!!

Nowadays I am facing new challenges as you know I have started writing about two months before and I am also doing some work from home simultaneously.

Now the challenge is to manage the time for me, my family and kids and for my work as well.

Because of my little one, everything related to my writing, I do with my phone only. It is easy to handle for me. The phone is handy for me and easy to open and shut.

Now come to the next point,As my daughter is very good in studies and extracurricular activities that’s why I feel extra cautious to help her to enhance her abilities. I also encourage her and help her in practice daily so that she can get the extra command in her subjects. I make sure that I am also a part of her lessons.

My little one has just completed two so he is also entering a new phase of learning so double challenge for me from both the sides. Believe me, It is not easy really.

How I am trying to make a balance between my work and the kids, I am sharing with you, I hope it will help you.

The following points which I am practising nowadays. They are-

1. Setting small goals-

I know, I have limited time and I have to manage a lot of things in that time so I am setting small goals on a daily basis according to my requirements and keeping an eye on it, how they are going?

I know lots of things are lacking but I am sure I will incorporate all the essential things in my new schedule very soon.

One thing I make sure that I give sufficient time to my kids. I made my schedule like this when my daughter is in school and my little one is sleeping, I try to finish my maximum writing-related work at that time, If I couldn’t do then I only finish in the night else it goes in the pending, after waking him up I can’t able to finish. I can’t help it.

2. Making a to-do list

I think this is the most important part of the planning. What you are going to do the next day if you have all those things noted down in your diary, you can feel at least some relief. I am also planning and making my to-do list for tomorrow.

In my to-do list, one thing is on the topmost priority is my daughter’s studies and her daily homework. As she also likes reading so I have to give that extra time where she asks lots of questions about her confusions.

I tell you, she is a very talkative girl and she loves to talk about her daily school routine so you can add some extra minutes for that also.

I can surely say I also enjoy talking with her just like friends. Although she is small whenever I feel down she is always there to boost me up in her own way. My life is incomplete without my family.

3. Reviewing things, where am I going wrong?

Nowadays I am experimenting with my schedule and reviewing the things which I planned, Is they are going in the right direction? I am also changing the things which are not fitting in my schedule.

Now I don’t watch T.V and other YouTube videos much as I do earlier. I adjust that time to maintain my own social media stuff.

Franking speaking, after adding writing in my schedule I don’t get enough time for talking with friends and families more often but I tell to myself, blogging is very new to me so that I need time to understand all those things about that.

4. Taking care of myself-

I am trying my best but it is also true that I am lacking somewhere because I am having health issues due to insufficient sleep.

I know it is hectic to work continuously. The most difficult part of my routine to handle my little one as he doesn’t understand many things and because of him most of the things go in the “undone list”.

I know this is the time when he can freely enjoy everything that’s why I also feel happy with my undone work because this time will never come back in both the lives.

Although I am trying to make the right balance between my work and my other responsibilities sometimes I feel myself in a very odd situation where I have to choose between my work and the family. I believe I can’t compromise in my family related things due to my work.

I think, Working in the right amount is very important otherwise we will be overloaded ourselves. I decide my hours where I want to work happily, not in the pressure.

5. Trying to maintain consistency

Whatever we are doing, If consistency is not there, those things will not go in the long run. I am also feeling, it is not easy to maintain but if you want to do then be consistent. Find your ways to fulfil it.

This thing I apply for me and my daughter also, I never miss her assignments, meetings and other project related works. I personally make sure what she has done in the school and what is the homework for today. Daily revision is a must.

6. Dealing with the distractions-

I am making myself mentally prepared for the sudden and unwanted distractions.

I experienced last month when I was not well I was so much concerned about my daughter’s studies because my husband was also very busy in his office audit works. This thing bothered me a lot but I realised later this is life everything will not happen according to my wish and I have to accept the natural flow of life. Every time everything doesn’t go perfectly.

It will happen, It’s ok.

These are my points, what do you think about this? Share with me.

I think kids are the most beautiful gift and we got the chance to enhance the beauty of their lives. We should grab it and give our two hundred per cent efforts. Unlike our work time, kids time also will not come back again. I can only say, balance it wisely.

I want to convey my special regards to all of you for your kind support! Hoping, It will continue like this.

I will catch you in my next one, till then take care, be happy and healthy. Be connected as well.

Announcement !!!!

Hello all !!! How are you doing?

I have an announcement for all of you. I have some commitments for this month as well as the next so may be possible I wouldn’t be able to publish the posts regularly.

Thanks a lot for all your support and hoping for the same as earlier!

I will try my level best to set a new schedule according to the new responsibilities. I am sure, I will come back with some of more daily life challanging and motivating topics. Till then take care. Be productive.

Happy Sunday.

Make a choice :What do you want from your life?

Are you in the confusion?

Are you not satisfied with the progress of your life?

Do you want to change the current scenario of your life?

If the answer to all the three questions is “yes” then this blog is dedicated to all of you.

Welcome, all to my blog!!

Friends!!! Life is not as simple as we considered in our imaginations, there are some twists and turns which we have to accept and make our own path.

Everybody has different thoughts, aspirations and goals and their specific ways to achieve them. It is up to them how they define their lives.

Some are more ambitious so their priorities would be different. Some give the most priority to their family.

If someone’s priority is his profession then he can’t sacrifice his goals, it is fact and on the other hand, for someone, his family and kids are the most priority and he always tries to find some ways to adjust his family responsibilities with his profession.

There are very few who maintain a good balance in both of them and in actual mean they are the true winners.

Some are not satisfied with their personal life. If they are satisfied with their personal life then not sure about their professional life.

Do you ever think why these questions bothered?

The answer is comparison and confusion.

Everybody wants to live other’s life as he is only watching only the best part of their’s lives rest he is not watching actually or he doesn’t want to see.

Let’s understand it.

Confusion is the deep-rooted cause of all of these problems because we are living our life simply without knowing from where I have to start, where I have to go? Now, what is my current situation? What would be my destination?

Those who are not clear about their thoughts and vision, can’t get success.

Problem is this, they don’t know what they actually want from their lives. They are not happy with their current position and maybe with the future one.

If they feel satisfied about their decision then there should be no space for any confusion.

How this space creates?

I tell you before the reason is a comparison.

Without any similar situations, we compare us to others, found ourselves smaller than others, depressed with the situation then surrender.

The fall starts from here only because every small line is competing with the big line and the big line is competing with his bigger one and a bigger one from the biggest one. There is no end to this comparison. Let me explain with an example.

For example, If one chooses a specific work for him, he must be calculated some points regarding this, Agree? then what is the need for the comparison?

From where this comparison comes from his side or other’s side.

If we can’t control the other’s judgement so at least be clear about yourselves.

Life is not a race all the time.

Lots of options are open to you. Firstly make a choice according to your suitability then find the chance for yourself if you couldn’t find then ready to make your own and in the last, if you are not satisfied with that then change it.

This will happen only if you are clear about the steps you are following.

One more thing we should learn, appreciate ourselves for our efforts.

Don’t wait for others if they do so, they are welcomed and if they don’t, they are also welcomed.

Welcome your decisions and think again and again what were the reasons to choose this one, I am sure you will definitely get the answer.

Don’t lose hope. Everything will be fine. Be positive and make efforts. Take care!