Adjustments: Justified??

Hello all!!

Today I am going to talk about the topic which we all experienced so many times in our life.

Adjustments

Are you feeling heavy to listen to this word?

This is because we have already fixed the specific perception about the specific word and the person, somewhere in our subconscious mind.

Whenever we listen to that specific word or think about the person, related feeling with those particular automatically comes in our mind and In advance, we start to feel uncomfortable.

We start to think about only the negative part of that like now we have to do that thing which we never want to do.

Like we think now we have to do compromises but we don’t want to come out from our comfort zone, that’s why we start to feel uncomfortable.

Why should we not think about the positive part of that situation too? Why we always make adjustments in the negative sense always?

Why I am saying all those things because I want to relate my point with that specific thing when we are standing in the situation of adjustment. How our state of mind works at that time?

If we take it positively we can do much more productive and fruitful above our expectations.

What can we do?

First of all, we can try to start with the basics. What are the current situations? What are the options available? What are the dos and donts for the situation??

We have to calculate all the aspects of the situations they come to pick the best option which is available at that time.

In actual, Adjustments are nothing, only based on balancing the situation with our wisdom to improve the outcome of the situation. If we use this in the correct way this can be key to unlock the trouble.

Here I want to quote the words-

“We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails-Dolly Parton”

Let’s take a real-life example to understand it. Suppose If we are in the situation where we are helpless, no other options we have, we know we have to do it at anyhow either we want to do or not.

We cannot avoid it at all now you think what would be the better idea. Either stand against the situation and persons which are related to that or sit calmly, understand the situation, our role in the whole process and now what can we do something better in the situation. I know the second idea is not easy but at least we can try it.

Think. If somebody is completely dependent on you or want help from your side and he is in the helplessness situation, you know that you are the only hope for him then how can you go in the denial mode.

Here we have to make our mind that I am the special one to whom God gave the chance and opportunity to perform the best part in a different way.

Believe me, we will feel some special kind of energy and here all our efforts for adjustments can change the whole situation.

Here I agree, we have to face some troubles and discomforts too because we have to do something extra from the routine. Perhaps our adjustments would be the boon for someone else.

If our efforts, our adjustments can do some positive change in some other person’s life then go for a check at least once and then see what the inner satisfaction you get for yourself which you never feel before.

I am not saying we should do adjustments always but when it necessary and good for someone else too, just take a try.

Now ending with the question adjustments good or bad? take your call on this.

Failure::An Experience

Failure is the result when we don’t reach the goal which we either decide for ourselves or decided by someone else where we have to give results on the basis of the performance.

We should take failure as an experience. If we will never fail then we will never learn that chapter of the life.

How can failure be the game changer and help to trigger to choose the right direction::

1. First of all, we have to set our mind that nobody is perfect here. 100 Percent Perfection is totally an imagination.

2. When somebody starts a work, they start with the learning point of view & If they are learning they will do mistakes and that mistakes help them to make a strong base in that particular field and will help them further in some other way so don’t much bother about that failure which we get in the process of learning because efforts never go in vain.

3. I think this is the basic difference between the successful person and the struggler. Successful people don’t get so emotional on their defeat. They channelise the energy and efforts again in the right direction.

4. They never lose hope, try and try again and get the success in the end. Learn from the mistakes and ensure that those mistakes don’t repeat in future again.

5. If we are not getting success with the same formula then try to find a new point of view with some twist. We have to find out the new ideas and the new opportunities to establish that thought process and focus on the disciplined planning and right execution steps.

6.”Experience is the best teacher“, we have to understand the truth that we are taking the real experience through failure which will be the first step of success in future. There is no any example about that person who never went wrong and achieved all the goals.

7. Watch all the success stories and go through with them then you come to know, how many times they faced failure, criticism and rejections but never gave up and the most common things about them they came again with a solid plan and double energy and this is true if we are enough mentally strong then nobody can ever dare the change our determination.

8. Don’t bother about the people, they will talk, they will criticise, let them talk. Avoid all the negativity and never stop to work on that tiny steps which must be the biggest one in the future.

9.With the support of the family and true friends, we can achieve the difficult targets too and don’t worry if nobody is there with you, be strong enough to handle it with your own. Don’t step back because, in the end, one should fight his own battle without any support.

So with this note, I am ending here. Lots of best wishes to all of them who are busy changing their efforts to succeed.All the very best to all of you.

Happiness:A choice

Happiness is an emotional state or feeling of satisfaction. When we feel satisfied with the certain things that are going in the right direction and are getting the expected results. We feel happy about it.

I think happiness is a choice where we can try to be happy. It doesn’t mean that everything is perfect but we can decide to accept all the imperfections and look beyond it.

For being happy we can follow these following things:::

1. Avoid negativity and negative people.
2. Don’t compare your life with others.
3. Accept the past, live in the present and don’t feel worried about the future.
4. Give credit to yourselves and don’t expect so much from others. Pamper yourselves too.
5. Enjoy and celebrate every small moment of our life.
6. Don’t take shortcuts to accomplish the goals because the end result will be definitely not in your favour.
7. Find reasons to be happy in stressful situations too.
8. Be mentally and physically fit then only we can be emotionally fit.
9. Try to think positive because positivity definitely gives us hope to think above all the negatives.
10. Talk with our loved ones and be connected with family and good friends.
11. Take a short break from routine and spend some time with nature, go for an outing.
12. Follow your senses and go with them. Give some time to your hobby & passion. This will also give you inner satisfaction.