#WriteBravely Day 5

A feminist is anyone who recognizes the equality and full humanity of women and men”.-Gloria Steinem

It can be sound weird but It is a fact that only a woman creates unnecessary boundaries to another woman especially in her own families. Mothers can be the exception somewhere.

It is shown rarely that the woman stands in her own family and says to another woman that you are doing right or you should be doing this only, I am with you. Go for it or I would support you. Instead of this, she is the one who convinces others also to stop her way.

Most of the times she stands alone and fights for her own rights. On the other hand, some even doesn’t know that raising voice for herself is not the selfishness.

She has also the right to live her life in her own way. Why she have to take permissions all the times? Here I am not talking about any safety concern, talking about only that dominating mentality.

If she collects all the courage to raise her voice, she declared as the most unrespectful person of the family.

Is it so?

Problem is in our upbringing also, we girls are taught from the starting, you can’t do this, this is not good for you. You should do this or you should learn this and we accept the way as we taught.

Why are the boys are not taught that they should also respect the women, her views, her wishes, her aspirations, her desires?

Even though, She always ready to face challenges then why she doesn’t get that expected support from the rest of the members. I am not talking about the all but what I observed most of them suffer from the same issue.“Predefined fixed criteria for the women.”

As a woman, we can change the perception in a very positive way that a woman is not the enemy of another woman. We have the power to influence, don’t underestimate this.

The woman is an ocean of possibilities. I can’t ignore the fact that Almighty has given some very special powers to the women only because he also knows that she can do everything. Nothing is impossible for her If she really wants to do.

So It is our responsibility as a woman to create a new world for every woman where she can fly like a bird in the sky of her wishes.

Use carefully our power of influence. It is also true If a woman wants she can change the lives of other woman and the rest of the world.


http://‘I’m Writing Bravely for the Write Tribe Festival of Words – March 2019’

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44 thoughts on “Influence

  1. I am blessed to have been born in a family of strong women who were pioneers in their field. My paternal grandmother and her sister (my grandaunt) were freedom fighters, both were members of parliament in the first lok sabha and rajya sabha of India. They fought for equal rights for women and underpriviliged people in India and my grandaunt helped shape the constitution of the United Nations. I think if we want to really do something for others, we will find a way.

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  2. “Almighty has given some very special powers to the women only because he also knows that she can do everything.” these words stole my heart Thats very true. And every woman should not allow herself to be taken for granted.

    #celebratewritetribe #writebravely

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  3. Such a nicely written post. You are write a lot of it depends upon our upbringing and conditioning. Guess it’s time for women to break the glass ceiling and move beyond.

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  4. This is an excellent post with a equally excellent message. We should use our influence in a positive way so that we women can uplift each other.

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  5. I wish we all could think like that! And its true that woman creates max problem for another woman. Its not men who talk negative about women. We should consider us as a human being nothing else.

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