Are you in the confusion?
Are you not satisfied with the progress of your life?
Do you want to change the current scenario of your life?
If the answer to all the three questions is “yes” then this blog is dedicated to all of you.
Welcome, all to my blog!!
Friends!!! Life is not as simple as we considered in our imaginations, there are some twists and turns which we have to accept and make our own path.
Everybody has different thoughts, aspirations and goals and their specific ways to achieve them. It is up to them how they define their lives.
Some are more ambitious so their priorities would be different. Some give the most priority to their family.
If someone’s priority is his profession then he can’t sacrifice his goals, it is fact and on the other hand, for someone, his family and kids are the most priority and he always tries to find some ways to adjust his family responsibilities with his profession.
There are very few who maintain a good balance in both of them and in actual mean they are the true winners.
Some are not satisfied with their personal life. If they are satisfied with their personal life then not sure about their professional life.
Do you ever think why these questions bothered?
The answer is comparison and confusion.
Everybody wants to live other’s life as he is only watching only the best part of their’s lives rest he is not watching actually or he doesn’t want to see.
Let’s understand it.
Confusion is the deep-rooted cause of all of these problems because we are living our life simply without knowing from where I have to start, where I have to go? Now, what is my current situation? What would be my destination?
Those who are not clear about their thoughts and vision, can’t get success.
Problem is this, they don’t know what they actually want from their lives. They are not happy with their current position and maybe with the future one.
If they feel satisfied about their decision then there should be no space for any confusion.
How this space creates?
I tell you before the reason is a comparison.
Without any similar situations, we compare us to others, found ourselves smaller than others, depressed with the situation then surrender.
The fall starts from here only because every small line is competing with the big line and the big line is competing with his bigger one and a bigger one from the biggest one. There is no end to this comparison. Let me explain with an example.
For example, If one chooses a specific work for him, he must be calculated some points regarding this, Agree? then what is the need for the comparison?
From where this comparison comes from his side or other’s side.
If we can’t control the other’s judgement so at least be clear about yourselves.
Life is not a race all the time.
Lots of options are open to you. Firstly make a choice according to your suitability then find the chance for yourself if you couldn’t find then ready to make your own and in the last, if you are not satisfied with that then change it.
This will happen only if you are clear about the steps you are following.
One more thing we should learn, appreciate ourselves for our efforts.
Don’t wait for others if they do so, they are welcomed and if they don’t, they are also welcomed.
Welcome your decisions and think again and again what were the reasons to choose this one, I am sure you will definitely get the answer.
Don’t lose hope. Everything will be fine. Be positive and make efforts. Take care!