Forgiveness

Meaning of Forgiveness-

Forgiveness is the gesture of letting go of those emotions or feelings which we hold willingly or unwillingly.

Sometimes we don’t want to come out of that zone which we self-created in our mind and blame others that they are doing repetitively.

Lets talk about the possibilities!

Suppose!!

If someone did very wrong with you, then two possibilities are there-

(a) Intentionally: That person wants to do so willingly.

(b) Unintentionally: His intention was not wrong although he did it by mistake.

If we know the reason then it will easy to consider his situation and forgive him.

Unintentionally-

If the person hurt you unintentionally then there is no

reason to hold that grudge for a long time and give torture to yourself because that person will never feel that emotion which you made in your mind.

So the point is trying to come out from that feeling & zone and understand both the situations because in that condition only your energy is depleting by thinking again & again and by making the web of negative thoughts.

Solution-

Now the solution is if we know he did unintentionally then forgive immediately and start with the new slate.

Intetionally-

In the other situation, when you knoe about that he is doing intentionally, Moto is crystal clear he wants to disturb you and wants to divert your focus from your aim & work.

Then it should be more easier than earlier because we know his moto so it’s easy to ignore all those words & actions.

After sometimes when they will realise that those things are not affecting you anymore, they will automatically drop the idea of bullying you.

And in the last, If the mistake is yours then don’t feel any shame to accept your mistake and say sorry.

If the person doesn’t accept the sorry at that time then you don’t need to feel offended because the mistake is your and the other person felt insulted and hurt then try some other way to convince him but don’t stop communicating with that person.

So, In the end, I only want to say, Forgive Others and Spread Happiness.

https://myaspiringhope.wordpress.com/2018/11/21/happinessa-choice/

I will catch you in the next one, till then, take care and be happy.

Regards & Gratitude,

Deepika